For the most part, there are women that are holy and come to the house of worship to hear the Word of God.
But there are times when a woman will be approached by an immoral pastor.
Here are some signs to look for that will give you a clue as to when he is making a play on you.
AVOID THE PASTOR’S THAT SEXUALLY LOOK AT YOU
Immoral pastors will give the KFC look.
Every immoral man has “that look.”
Like a piece of chicken, legs, thighs, and breasts.
It’s a heart penetrating look to disarm your walk of holiness to please God.
When an pastor gives you that look, it’s not because he is preaching to you but because he wants you sexually.
No matter what a woman may wear, if it is attractive, he will look beyond your modest dress.
When I mean look beyond your modest dress, he has already undressed you with his perverted heart. And he makes sure that you know that he is looking at you that way so that he gets the message over to you. Other women in the church do pick up on it but sometimes they suppress it because some of them are hoping that he would look at them that way too.
In small church settings, it’s almost certain that he is looking to connect. In much larger settings, it can happen too.
There was a video that I looked at by mistake but it gave me information that is essential to this blog.
Obviously, it was a very provocative video. A man dressed like a pimp sat across from a male and female. He was singing “Can your boyfriend do it like me” or words to that effect. The boyfriend was into his newspaper or electronic device and not into his girlfriend. The girlfriend look over her boyfriend’s shoulder and was instantly attracted to the dude. He gave that “look” and that’s all she needed.
She left her boyfriend in the chair. Brother man didn’t even look up to see where she was going.
But it’s like that in church.
The immoral pastor gives that look, and that all a woman needs.
A PASTOR’S OUTSPOKEN PERSONALITY
His words are smoother than oil and butter, sweeter than honey, and deadlier than a viper.
His intelligence mesmerizes you. His uses of vocabulary disables your senses. He sees that you are easily persuaded and he has invaded your soul.
His words are almost irresistible. Every word goes deeper and deeper into your soul and mind. So much so, that at night you can’t get his voice out of your mind. He lavishes you with words and you cannot get them out of your mind.
He has a way with words that could make you undress in a church service.
As Paul said in Romans 3:4, “…let God be true and every man a liar.”
Even when a pastor is preaching and living right, men are not to be trusted. Just as women come to church for the right and wrong reason, flesh cannot be trusted (see Jeremiah 17:5-10).
Just like the sign in most stores.
“In God we trust. All others pay cash.”
I find it rather disgusting that a man of God would preach his best sermon just to get through to your emotions, and then use his personality to talk you into the bedroom. Just as with rogue pastor Juan McFarland, AIDS infected, defrocked pastor of Shiloh Missionary Baptist Church in Montgomery, AL, had condom-less sex with multiple women on the church grounds.
Just thinking about this.
Even though McFarland has AIDS, he still might be capable of impregnating a woman. Not only are the women at an extreme risk of contracting the disease, they may have also been impregnated. The sad thing is that if they were impregnated, they might have aborted/murdered the child to falsely erase the stigma of being impregnated by an AIDS infected pastor.
While we may never know unless they report that they were impregnated, this is alleged, not confirmed.
He does have YouTube videos of his sermons and it reminded me of the times I was in sexual sin with porn and masturbation. The messages he was preaching had no life. Unregenerate pastors that live in sin is like listening to a shell. There is no life in them. There’s 50% of pastors that’s involved with porn and masturbation that preach the same way. So deep in Secret and Overt Sexual Sins that no one is getting the life of the Holy Spirit. Men that claim to be men of God will emotionally preach their messages because there is no Spirit of God upon him.
God will not place His anointing on a man in sin.
In Israel, when Hannah cried out to the Lord for a son, God used her cry to bring judgment on the nation. Samuel was born and Hannah, as vowed, gave him to the Lord. The sons of Eli, Hophni and Phinehas perverted the temple and Eli refused to discipline his sons. The whole nation was in so much sexual immorality that the Lord had to exercise judgment.
Hophni, his name has the meaning of a “pugilist” and Phinehas means “mouth of a serpent.”
Hophni was possibly a rapist and Phinehas was a smooth talker.
Whenever a man uses words to convince you to commit sexual immorality, you are not talking to a man but to a serpent called the demon of lust.
If you do not get away from him, it is just a matter of time, because he will work on you until you give in.
While the demographics are different in certain localities, many women gravitate to houses of worship that is close as possible. But they also go to places where they feel the Spirit.
If the preacher is good looking, married or not, women will still show up. This is the other side of the issue.
Married preachers are supposed to be off limits, but it doesn’t matter these days.
His outspoken personality is coupled with his wardrobe. His robe or suit could also be used as part of the attraction. His position of power and influence is part of the attraction. Like most animals in the animal world, what they build and how they fight for females is an attraction.
In the pulpit, it is no different.
So how do you avoid this?
Find a local church that lives and preaches the Word of God, preaching and living in holiness, perfecting holiness in the fear of God.
If you are single, divorced, or having marital problems, find a church where there is considerable distance from eye contact with a married or single pastor. If you are seeking counseling, you should find a church that have qualified female ministers that can handle your counseling needs.
Should a pastor call you to have you come over to the church, do not go.
Decline the invitation.
If it is just to do church work, never go alone.
Make sure that you bring a friend or relative with you and do not go into places alone with him. Avoid the appearance of evil at all times. Never cross lines that will be regrettable later. The shame and stigma is still applied these days, regardless of how acceptable fornicating or sleeping with a pastor becomes.
Time in the sack is not worth a trip to hell over, for as Paul said, “Be not deceived. …..neither fornicators or adulteress……will inherit the kingdom of God.”
If you do not want to be labeled as the church harlot, do what you have to do to avoid the smooth talking demon pastor.