Oral sex was a relatively taboo subject until the Bill Clinton & Monica Lewinsky sex scandal of November 1997. President Clinton went on national television and wagged his finger and declared that he never had sex with Monica Lewinsky. Turns out that he lied and almost lost the presidency over a “blow job.”
Up until that point, oral sex was not considered sex with the opposite sex.
How wrong many people were.
Sex is sex. Sex acts are sex acts.
Penile/vaginal intercourse is the most common sex act. However, we are seeing that anal sex, oral sex, and bestiality is now a normally accepted sex act among humans, especially professed believers.
My very first exposure to anal/oral/vaginal sex was my first porn movie at a house with my teenaged friends. I was repulsed by it. That such an abuse of sex would take place. Come to find out much later that the seed of acceptance of perversion was planted in my heart, mind, and flesh. When perversion is normalized, people who you’d thought were not perverted believers come out to defend an indefensible position.
My porn addiction took place between 1998 and 2008, roughly ten years of bondage to perversion. I exposed myself to more oral sex, threesomes, and other forms of perversion.
This is fueled my depraved thinking and made oral sex a very normally acceptable practice. By the way, I never demanded oral sex from my wife, for the record. The fantasy of oral sex through porn was enough for me.
While there is no Scripture directly authorizing oral sex and many will argue that it’s between two consenting married individuals male and female, it’s not a sin.
Well consider Ephesians 5:2-12. Please note the word unclean which means morally lewd.
An article came to my attention where a man wanted anal sex penetration from his wife. She strapped a sex toy around her waist and began penetrating her husband with a sex toy.
This is morally lewd behavior.
But I suspect professed believers are engaging in these perverse practices with no conviction.
The argument is that just because I deem it nasty is not nasty to those that practice it.
Sounds exactly like the argument LGBT speaks of and this same argument is preached without hesitation by professed believers.
The training of the senses desensitized all righteousness.
I believe that the same thing happens to people that are in the Body of Christ that once you get passed the smell, you go it licked, as one person told me after asking me if I liked oral sex.
Of course I told him no, that I didn’t like oral sex.
The other argument is what people do in the privacy of their bedroom is their business.
I like how the Holy Spirit call people out.
You talk about oral sex and then the real perverted professed believers come out to defend perversion. People do not know that when you comment, it’s a deposition. Your very words will justify you and your very words will condemn you. What you really believe will come out and when we stand before the judgment seat of Christ, you will render an account.
Be very careful from, here on out, how you speak because the Stenographer will not miss one word.
After doing a brief study on the subject, there are some that believe that if a married couple, that never engaged in extramarital sex, if they stay monogamous, they would not contract any diseases while performing oral sex on each other.
Well, I came across a cite of an individual that shared about 16 HPV.
After reading the article, go to the comments below and there is a comment that would shock you.
If that is not enough for you, listen to this pastor share about oral sex and demons.
Oral sex is nasty.
Now many have argued that what is done in the bedroom of married people is their business. Not when such acts done by the world that we know is perversion and sex crazed is done. Many have told us that we should mind our business. Here we go, to raise the issue and warn people, and the ones that are convicted come out to shout you down.
There are others that do not believe that oral sex is nasty.
In fact, many will use Song Of Solomon 2:3 to Biblically justify oral sex “Like an apple tree among the trees of the woods, so is my beloved among the sons. I sat down in his shade with great delight, and his fruit was sweet to my taste.”
The penis, when erect is somewhat shaped like a banana. Folks, it could also mean that the totality of his body is like a piece of fruit that was sweet.
In a very testy back and forth on a couple of FB posts, there are people that justify the perverted sex act by calling it a “preference.”
The silence of the Bible regarding oral sex is never to be taken that God is condoning the act of oral sex.
This is the mistake that many people that engage in perversion always make. If God never said it, it is safe to do it.
There are a few preachers that declare oral sex as a disgusting act. Several years ago, before the Faith Dome was built by Dr. Fred Price, at Crenshaw Christian Center on Pepperdine University, he shared on Marriage and Sexuality. He declared that oral sex is perverted and against natural vaginal/penile sex.
I can’t agree more.
It’s amazing as to what lengths professed believers will go to justify something that is nasty.
Few understand that during foreplay, the penis excrete a fluid to clean the passage way called the urethra which is (from Wikipedia) “in anatomy, the urethra is a tube that connects the urinary bladder to the genitals for the removal of fluids from the body.”
During sexual arousal each gland produces a clear, salty, viscous secretion known as pre-ejaculate. This fluid helps to lubricate the urethra for spermatozoa to pass through, neutralizing traces of acidic urine in the urethra, and helps flush out any residual urine or foreign matter.
Though the pre-ejaculate does not contain sperm it is possible for this fluid to pick up sperm, remaining in the urethral bulb from previous ejaculations, and carry them out prior to the next ejaculation.
The Cowper’s gland also produces some amount of prostate-specific antigen (PSA), and Cowper’s tumors may increase PSA to a level that makes prostate cancer suspected.“
This is not to suggest that prostrate cancer is connected to oral sex. It is just a statement about when men take a PSA test, prostate cancer may or may not be detected.
People are willing to put themselves at risk. Even when you give them something to think about with the testimony of others that engaged in oral sex, they will deliberately ignore it for pleasures.
One thing is certain. There are certain professed believers that will engage in sex acts that are nasty, disgusting, and perverted.
Notice what Jesus said in Luke 8:14… “Now the ones that fell among thorns are those who, when they have heard, go out and are choked with cares, riches, and pleasures of life, and bring no fruit to maturity.”
Now notice what Paul said in 2 Timothy 3:1-5…. “But know this, that in the last days perilous times will come: For men will be lovers of themselves, lovers of money, boasters, proud, blasphemers, disobedient to parents, unthankful, unholy, unloving, unforgiving, slanderers, without self- control, brutal, despisers of good, traitors, headstrong, haughty, lovers of pleasure rather than lovers of God, having a form of godliness but denying its power. And from such people turn away!”
Notice what we are to do according to Ephesians 5:11-13…. “And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather expose them. For it is shameful even to speak of those things which are done by them in secret. But all things that are exposed are made manifest by the light, for whatever makes manifest is light.”
This is where believers must make a decision to abstain from the disgusting, perverted sex acts. Those that engage in oral sex will fight you to the death to keep on doing these disgusting, nasty, and perverted sex acts.
Revelation 22:11, The Lord said…..“He who is unjust, let him be unjust still; he who is filthy, let him be filthy still; he who is righteous, let him be righteous still; he who is holy, let him be holy still.”
The word “filthy” from Strong’s Concordance is the Greek word ῥυπόω rhypoō; from; to soil, i. e. (intransitively) to become dirty (morally):— be filthy.
When a risk for disease is before certain believers, we find that many will continue to engage in these perverted sex acts because they have gotten beyond the risks. They do not believe that what they are doing is wrong.
Well, let them be.
In the end, when we stand before the Lord, we will all know the truth.
As Paul said, “we see through a glass darkly…..we know in part and we prophesy in part.”
While it is always best to heed the Holy Spirit and the Word of God to abstain from the ways of the world, folk will suppress the convicting power of the Holy Spirit, and the Word of God to engage in disgusting, perverted, filthy, nasty sex acts.
Including oral sex.