Kentucky Rowan Clerk, Kim Davis Defies Homosexuals

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Well, the showdown was with fireworks.

Clerk Kim Davis held her ground and said that God’s authority prohibits her from issuing a marriage license to homosexuals. She refuses to issue a marriage license because it would be considered her as endorsement of the sin of homosexuality.

The homosexuals were not happy and put on a childish tirade to force the clerk to submit to their will.

It didn’t work.

The homosexuals weren’t happy.

Clerk Davis has a valid point.

Romans 13:1-7 says this…..

“Let every soul be subject to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and the authorities that exist are appointed by God. Therefore whoever resists the authority resists the ordinance of God, and those who resist will bring judgment on themselves.

For rulers are not a terror to good works, but to evil. Do you want to be unafraid of the authority? Do what is good, and you will have praise from the same. For he is God’s minister to you for good. But if you do evil, be afraid; for he does not bear the sword in vain; for he is God’s minister, an avenger to execute wrath on him who practices evil.

Therefore you must be subject, not only because of wrath but also for conscience’ sake. For because of this you also pay taxes, for they are God’s ministers attending continually to this very thing. Render therefore to all their due:taxes to whom taxes are due, customs to whom customs, fear to whom fear, honor to whom honor.”

Authority comes from God. Authority must be righteous.

Proverbs 14:34 says “Righteousness exalts a nation but sin is a reproach to any people.”

In order for government to be righteous, it must first come from God, and any law that is made must be a righteous law.

That’s why the elite of homosexual sin is desperately working to craft laws to prohibit the use of the Bible as the sole authority of the righteous. That’s why the First amendment is a problem to the homosexual agenda. They would love to remove the First Amendment. But as long as this nation has a constitution with the First Amendment, there is very little that they could do about it.

Clerk Kim Davis cited her Biblical convictions and she has a very valid point.

Homosexuality is sin, therefore, the Lord God will not advocate sin.

Clerk Kim Davis, in making a bold stand, is simply letting the whole world know that even though she was elected into office by the people of Rowan county, she is an appointed official by God. Therefore, the Word of God takes unequalled precedence over the abominable laws of man to legitimize the sin of homosexuality.

Fear of God takes precedence over fear of man.

Even with the threat of man’s court, their punishment is not comparable to the judgment of Almighty God.

A man’s temporary hell is far less punitive than God’s eternal punishment of hell.

So for all of you that support the homosexuals, you are on the wrong side of the judgment of God.

The story of Clerk Kim Davis’s stand against the homosexuals could be read here.

Courage To Reveal Your Secrets – R C Sproul Jr.’s Involvement In The Ashley Madison Hacking

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Luke 12:2 and Psalm 90:8 never fails.

A very well known man of God, R C Sproul Jr., revealed his Secret Sexual Sins.

It takes courage to put out your sin. However, it should never take a hacker to put it out there to get you to confess.

It is unfair to speculate and it isn’t right to assume when you do not have the facts.

As best and as transparent as possible, R C Sproul Jr. put out as much details as possible to get us to understand his involvement with Ashley Madison’s adultery site. He is a widower so this, according to him, may have been after the death of his wife in 2011 of cancer.

One thing about secrets that I do know, unless this is a very truthful revelation, it leaves open the possibility that other secrets MAY be lurking. We do not know for certain and again, it would be very unfair to speculate without facts.

When dealing with Secret Sexual Sins, it is clear that there is the possibility of other forms of involvement in sexual sins, such as porn and masturbation that may be evident. Each person is different. There may be no involvement of porn and masturbation by R C Sproul Jr. We do not know and it would not be appropriate to seek this information.

I know what this is like BEFORE the Lord exposes you.

In my book Secret Sexual Sins, there is a chapter called “Come Clean! Or Be Exposed.”

I detailed how the Lord rescued me before He would tell the world what I had been up to in porn and masturbation.

It’s embarrassing for the Lord to put your sexual business out for the world to see, but when you insist on sinning before God, and then attempt to cover it up, you shall not prosper (see Proverbs 28:13).

The one thing that God always does is that He offers grace and forgiveness no matter how far along you are in your rebellion. When God exposes our Secret Sexual Sins, it is embarrassing but had we received the chastisement of the Lord before exposure became necessary, the embarrassment would still be there but He will graciously restore us on His time table and not ours.

There was a statement that said, “If you expose yourself, you keep your job. If God exposes you, you lose your job.”

I find that sometimes, that may be the case depending upon the individual. Sin definitely disqualifies a person from ministry as Paul states in 1 Corinthians 9:27, but we also see that restoration is the heart of the Lord in Galatians 6:1-3.

In order for quality restoration to come to fruition, we must never set a date for a return to ministry. We may suggest. We may ask. But that power should be left up to a strong accountability team that is tough but compassionate. Offering sound Biblical counsel to get a person that was once in ministry back on his or her feet again.

Jesus restored Peter after Peter betrayed the Lord. Every Saul needs a Barnabas, son of consolation. God restores the soul according to David’s 23 Psalm. Psalm 51 is the adulterer’s Psalm.

As I have stated in a previous blog post that 400 pastors (could be more) may have used the Ashley Madison adultery site.

More than ever, the web of sexual immorality is spread out to capture many souls to get them to hell. We need to pray for our leaders and we must be ruthless about our sins before we are ruthless about the sins of others according to Matthew 7:1-5.

Let’s keep R C Sproul Jr., and others in our prayers.

R C Sproul Jr’s admission of sin is on his web page and could be read here.

Ashley Madison Hacking Reveals Pastors & Christians On The List

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Josh Duggar’s name is not the only professed believer’s name exposed on the Ashley Madison adultery site list.

According to one source, 400 pastors are alleged to be on this list.

No surprise.

Why?

When it comes to Secret Sexual Sins, porn and masturbation are basically starting points, or they are interconnected. Many professed believers that are married (61%) engage in masturbation as married men and women.

For men and women, it’s just a matter of time before your yield to the temptation to seek out a body to fulfill a deep seated fantasy. When it comes to masturbation, it is pretend sex. People do get tired of solo sex and this level opens the door to obey the lies of the doctrine of demons and SEDUCING spirits.

In masturbation, you are pretending to have sex with the image on the screen.

After a while, because there is already a lack of discipline, that line that you said that you wouldn’t cross, gets crossed. You can’t help yourself and next thing you know, you get involved with a discreet chatroom or adultery site like Ashley Madison and sin is finished. After sin is finished says James, is death (see James 1:14-15).

You see, before a true believer commits adultery or fornication, they’ve already divorced themselves from God. You can’t enter into sin while you are righteous.

You MUST leave the righteousness of God at the door of sin.

To enter a dark room, you have to come out of the light. Light doesn’t go with you into dark places. You have to turn off the light in order to enter the dark because the rules of darkness demand that you turn off the light.

Just like the rule of light is that you have to come out of the darkness.

Look at what the Lord Jesus told Paul in Acts 26:18.

“…to open their eyes, in order to turn them from darkness to light, and from the power of Satan to God, that they may receive forgiveness of sins and an inheritance among those who are sanctified by faith in Me.”

It is impossible to be in evil and righteousness at the same time.

So if are a pastor and you have entered the dark house of cheating on your wife in secret, and you do not intend to stop, it’s just a matter of time before what the Lord seen before time began comes to light. Right now, you are on the fumes of His mercy. Once that runs out, there is nothing that will stop exposure.

I remember the Lord telling me when I was in masturbation and porn, He said these words to me.

“Come clean! Or be exposed!!!!”

The article from Charisma News could be read here.

If I Carry My Child, Who’s Going To Help Me Support It?

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As I was street preaching in Brooklyn, NY with my agitation abolitionist sign from Abolish Human Abortion, a lady walked up to me and questioned me about the social responsibility of children. She was a social worker and obviously a supporter of murdering children.

It became apparent to me that since the line of fornication and or adultery were crossed, the next line to cross would be the advocating of murdering a child because a mother can’t pay for the child. Sadly, this is a common problem among our communities and in the house of worship.

We are not willing to admit that this is a problem because we are more concerned about looking good before the community. Not realizing that we are looking mighty bad before the eyes of the Lord.

When whoredom and whoremongering is in the church, it is clear that sanctification, holiness, and righteousness are least talked about subjects from the pastor; let alone lived out in clean lives before the Lord.

While we cannot take responsibility about the sexual immorality of our nation and neighborhoods, as a people that claim to know God, we have a responsibility to make sure that our own house is clean before God.

Let’s back this up.

Since a woman and a man can afford to have sex, it seems to me that they should have gotten married first to begin with.

Sadly, some men want to have the pleasure without the responsibility. Sadly, some women want to have the pleasure without ensuring that the man she is mating with will be around to support he child and the mother.

It’s another example of putting the cart before the horse.

Now, mind you that many women will argue about “my body.” 

They will also argue about the fact that a man, the state (government), or the church doesn’t have the right to tell them about what to do with “their body.”

What they are saying is that no one, even God, doesn’t have authority over them.

This is anarchy. Sadly, Mr. I. B. Stupid will get in bed with them, get them pregnant, and then they will march down to an abortion house of murder to erase a life, to erase their sin. But because they do not see their adultery or fornication as sin, it is very easy to sacrifice a child.

There was a sign made by Mr. I. B. Stupid. It said “Abortion helps me not to pay child support.” Or words to the effect.

Automatically in the fool is his get out of child support card.

You see, lust demons will instruct fornicators on what to do should there be a pregnancy. From an article from EXMInistries, satanists involved in abortion demands a blood sacrifice. So an abortion doctor may very well be a satanist offering up your child to the devil as a blood sacrifice.

This is not surprising because that’s what the murder of 56 million babies are.

Blood sacrifices to satan.

satan hates the image of God and since the devil cannot kill God, he will murder people straight up.

John 8:44 is proof of this.

In the heat of a woman’s argument, the deception of “their body” would not be necessary in the first place had they not sinned before God in fornication or adultery. Many will say that it’s not about that. Well, beg to differ because it is. Every problem that is on earth is a spiritual problem that requires a spiritual solution.

The decision to sin is a spiritual decision.

James 1:14-16 says “But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own desires and enticed. Then, when desire has conceived, it gives birth to sin; and sin, when it is full- grown, brings forth death. Do not be deceived, my beloved brethren.”

That’s where the problem has always been. Pleasure has deceived them and they get caught in the trap. Instead of abstaining, they pursued the satisfaction to obtain pleasure. They call it a “mistake.” But calling it a mistake is like softening the blow of the fact that they have sinned before God. And they know it.

So caught with a child, they look to exterminate the child and everything is back to normal.

To have pleasure outside of the Word of God comes with a penalty.

You are pregnant. Now what are you gong to do?

Who is gong to support me? Who is going to help me?

There are many pregnancy crisis centers in the area that can help you keep your child. If you choose to put your child up for adoption, adoption is a better way than to face murder charges from the Judge of heaven. Even better, just refrain from the bedroom. Remember 1 Corinthians 6:9-10 that fornicators and adulterers will not inherit the kingdom of God. So those sins can be forgiven when you turn your heart over to the Lord in repentance, and put your total faith in the saving grace of God, through His Son, the Lord Jesus Christ.

Advocating sinning against God is not a position that any believer or pastor is to take because you would be violation of James 4:4. If you are already pregnant, and you are not married, or your male non supporter disappeared (coward), search for a crisis pregnancy center and take it from there. Search for family members that may be willing to help. Stop by a local true Christian church to seek help there.

To run to Planned Murderhood or any other abortion murder mill to kill a life because of sin is worse.

This Is My Body-Terminating A Pregnancy: Overthrowing These Planned Murderhood Lies

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Psalm 24:1 says, “The earth is the Lord’s, and all its fullness, the world and those who dwell therein.”

This verse ties in with Genesis 1:26-28. “Then God said, “Let Us make man in Our image, according to Our likeness; let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over the cattle, over all the earth and over every creeping thing that creeps on the earth.” So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them. Then God blessed them, and God said to them, “Be fruitful and multiply…”

God never said “….Be fruitful and subtract.”

These verses solves the ownership issue. That is, if you accept the Bible as final authority.

Because man refuses to accept the Bible as final authority, it is very easy for man to errantly assume that he is not under God’s authority.

But man is not without answering to any authority.

The laws that we live by came from God.

If you were to murder someone, you would be charged with a crime of homicide.

So what man has done is to make a law to circumvent the law of murder. Hence, Roe vs. Wade.

By the way, Exodus 20:13 says “You shall not kill.”

And Genesis 9:6 says, “Whoever sheds man’s blood, by man his blood shall be shed; for in the image of God He made man.”

This is absolute. So being that the law to not murder is suppressed, man is quick to sacrifice a child to cover their sin of adultery and or fornication.

That’s because they errantly assume that they are free from obeying the law to not murder anyone.

So the other lie to suppress the truth is that women believe that their body is their body.

In the heat of the argument, they refuse to see that the body inside her body is not her’s. Let alone the fact that her body is not her’s. Remember Psalm 24:1 and Genesis 1:26-28.

Psalm 100:3 says, “Know that the Lord, He is God, He has made us and not we ourselves.”

If we made ourselves, then we could declare absolute ownership.

Just like if we were to make a product, we would secure copyrights and if necessary, trademarks because if its originality, to protect your product from those seeking to infringe on your product.

God has exclusive rights to your body whether you agree with Him or not.

If you ever ask yourself the question as to why man must die, we must go to the Manufacturer to find out why.

Life comes from God and disobedience to God brought about death (see Romans 5:12).

When it comes to creation of the human body, we don’t have a clue about creating ourselves. After the initial making of humans (Adam and Eve), we can only copulate to procreate within the confines of marriage between one man and one woman.

And even within these parameters, we can’t declare ownership.

Completely understanding the complexity of the human body is still a mystery. There are some things that we still do not know about our bodies.

However, the Owner of us knows all things. It’s called Omniscience or all knowing. He is called God.

The other lie to suppress the charges of murder is “terminate a pregnancy.

Between these two lies, man has flipped the ownership script. Man has assumed it has the right to do as he or she pleases with impunity. There is no impunity.

Guilty of adultery, fornication, and murder.

Psalm 14:1 says, “The fool has said in his heart there is no God.”

If this is your only excuse to insulate you from being charged with sexual immorality and murder, you had better reconsider. God will hold no one guiltless. Many people say that they do not fear death. It’s not death that you should fear. It’s what’s going to happen afterwards that you should fear.

Hebrews 9:27 says “And as it is appointed unto men once to die, after this the judgment.”

We all know that death is true and certain. Judgment is true too. If death is certain on one hand, judgment is true on the other hand.

One more thing.

Notice that the words underneath this adorable child ring true.

But let’s take this a step further.

Adultery and fornication is a choice made by two persons deliberately intending to sin against God and themselves. Notice what 1 Corinthians 6:18 says. “Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body.”

The choice to have sex before marriage is a sin before God. The choice to engage in sex is the one choice that will make or break a person. Many people give in to the saying, “You know that they are going to have sex.”

But you do not have to have sex before you are married or if you are a widow.

Otherwise, do what Paul admonished in 1 Corinthians 7:1-2,9 “Now concerning the things of which you wrote to me: It is good for a man not to touch a woman. Nevertheless, because of sexual immorality, let each man have his own wife, and let each woman have her own husband….but if they (unmarried and widows) cannot exercise self- control, let them marry. For it is better to marry than to burn with passion.”

Hebrews 13:4 says “Marriage is honorable among all and the bed undefiled but adulterers and fornicators God will judge.”

As a side note, there are many single women and widow women that struggle to maintain sexual purity. There is this acronym called HALT. In the word HALT, the definition means STOP!!!!!

In other words, before giving in to the temptations of the flesh, just stop and think about what you want to do.

HALT means HUNGRY ANGRY LONELY TIRED.

If any of these things are happening in your life, it is not the reason to engage in sexual immorality.

2 Peter 1:3-9 says “…as His divine power has given to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of Him who called us by glory and virtue, by which have been given to us exceedingly great and precious promises, that through these you may be partakers of the divine nature, having escaped the corruption that is in the world through lust. 

But also for this very reason, giving all diligence, add to your faith virtue, to virtue knowledge, to knowledge self- control, to self- control perseverance, to perseverance godliness, to godliness brotherly kindness, and to brotherly kindness love. For if these things are yours and abound, you will be neither barren nor unfruitful in the knowledge of our Lord Jesus Christ. For he who lacks these things is shortsighted, even to blindness, and has forgotten that he was cleansed from his old sins.”

That’s why it’s easy for any man or woman that is not in the Word to engage in sexual immorality. If you are a child of God, this Word, if you maintain your walk in sanctification before God, will keep you from engaging in sexual immorality.

It’s worth it because 1 Corinthians 6:9 says “Be not deceived….neither fornicators……..nor adulterers…….shall inherit the kingdom of God.”

You do not want to go to hell and burn forever for one moment of sinful pleasure. Remember, death can come at any moment. And the coming of the Lord is imminent. This should be incentive enough to abstain from every form of evil.

As far as those that is in the world, your arguments fail the standard of the Scriptures. To continue in sin is a death trap that the Lord can free you from. You need to be saved from sin, death, and hell. Jesus paid this price for you over 2015 years ago just for you.

IF you repent or reconsider your ways, seek the Lord while He may be found and call upon Him while He is near, forsaking wickedness, and your unrighteous thoughts, the Lord will abundantly pardon your sins when you place your total faith and trust in Jesus.

God will forgive you of adultery, fornication, and murder. All your sins could be washed away by the shed blood of Jesus. Apart from this salvation, there is none else that can save you should you die without having your sins pardoned in full.

Cast aside the lies of “this is MY BODY!!! and “terminating a pregnancy,” it’s not worth it. Receive the truth and come to Christ before it is too late.

Eighth Planned Parenthood Video: Adultery & Fornication Fuels Abortion And Harvesting Body Parts

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The eighth video from The Center For Medical Progress has been released.

Some of us are outraged that this is happening in America against the law, but the Lord Jesus said, “Because of lawlessness the love of many will grow cold.”

Yet, we still are refusing to at least address the fact that the fuel to this madness is adultery and fornication.

In any fire, you need three items. It’s called The Fire Triangle.

  1. Fire.
  2. Oxygen.
  3. Material.

Eliminate any one of these three essential items and you cannot have a fire.

When you do not have sex, you cannot get pregnant.

While we are protesting, millions of people are committing adultery and fornication. Many women are getting pregnant outside of marriage. Many women are killing their unborn babies. Many women may or may not know that their child is used for research after they are violently extracted from the protection of the womb.

The women aren’t the only ones that carry the blame.

Mr. I. B. Stupid is also to blame.

It’s a lesson on who to avoid in marriage.

When it comes to sex, some men are stupid. And to top it all off, men advocate the killing of their child without any hesitation. At the drop of the hat, they willingly provide money to kill their own child. So two crimes, maybe three were committed. Coveting or lusting after a woman’s body, adultery or fornication, and murder.

So men do not walk away from this. Guilty, culpable, and if they do not repent, as well as the sinning woman, they are on their way to hell to burn for all eternity.

Many of these children experience the pain. In some cases, they experience the pain twice.

Twice?

They are yanked from the womb alive and then dissected alive to harvest body parts.

There used to be a day when such crimes would have been charged already, but because we do not deal with adultery and fornication, abortion is not dealt with. The Bible is absolute. Exodus 20 tells us about the command of the Lord not to commit adultery. Leviticus 18 gives us the law regarding sexual purity. We can go on and on about the Bible’s prohibition on sexual conduct outside of marriage or with same sex, but because there is no outrage on this level, there can be no outrage on murder, let alone harvesting body parts and selling them for top dollar.

“The wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.” Romans 6:23

Man wil be paid for the sins committed. Adultery, fornication, homosexuality, and the murder of innocent children.

Also we got word that the temporary injunction imposed by a judge was lifted on Friday. Which means more evidence will be released. Thing is, will there be any criminal charges launched or will the love wax cold to where there will be no charges?

Will more babies die?

Will there be a complete and permanent stay of execution on the unborn?

Will we have the guts and the resolve to abolish the murderous practice of abortion?

Or will it be just business as usual?

The article containing the transcript of the eighth video and the actual video could be seen here.

When Your Sexual Sin Was Exposed.

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Psalm 139:1-3 says  “O Lord, You have searched me and known me. You know my sitting down and my rising up; you understand my thought afar off. You comprehend my path and my lying down, and are acquainted with all my ways.”

It is no surprise to the Lord what you’ve done.

God knew what you would do before time began. Adam’s sin wasn’t a surprise to God. In the sin of Adam would be our Secret Sexual Sins. He knew that we would watch porn and masturbate. He knew when Adam disobeyed His command our disobedience.

Romans 5:12 “Therefore, just as through one man sin entered the world, and death through sin, and thus death spread to all men, because all sinned —”

What we do in secret was seen in Adam’s transgression. In all actuality, we were caught before time began. Nothing escapes the knowledge of God. Nothing escapes the knowing of God for He seen it before we were born.

But it doesn’t end there.

In the sin that He would see before time, He provided our salvation before time began. For every problem God provided an answer. Provided that you walk away from that secret sexual sin for ever.

You were already exposed.

I understand that this may not prevent those that are headstrong in having porn and masturbation. Headstrong is a sign of the end times as recorded in 2 Timothy 3:1-5. Headstrong carried the definition of an individual that is rash and will not care. They are deliberate in their intent to sin against God and will not care about God, their family, and the jobs.

The purpose of exposing their sin is to get them to repent. Exposure doesn’t have to happen. It took place because you resisted and rejected the warning of the Holy Spirit. Embarrassment was sent to stir you to repentance.

The difference will now be how you recover or continue in your sin.

People do not care if they were caught or embarrassed.

Hackers got in the Ashley Madison site used to commit adultery but it will not scare most people to stop and get it right.

Why the pessimism?

Because as soon as the coast is clear, they will or they have already found another site.

That’s the nature of sin. It takes you to another place where you can continue to sin before God. There is no deterrence or regard for what God has done. It is nothing to most men and women. There is no shame.

But the Lord is merciful because He wants repentance out of your life. If you fail to take advantage of the mercy of exposure, there is nothing left but the judgment of the Lord.

Hebrews 13:4 says, Marriage is honorable among all and the bed undefiled but adulterers and fornicators God will judge.”

People do not have to be judged when the judge themselves.

What you do in the exposure determines whether you will be judged.

It was an act of mercy that your sin was discovered and shown before all. It takes courage to step into the light and allow the Lord to heal you, deliver you and set you free. Since you ignored the delivering power of God before exposure, it left God no other choice but to reveal what you do in secret. You weren’t afraid. There was no fear of God before your eyes. Some have even dared God and God doesn’t take lightly the arrogance of a person that they wouldn’t be exposed.

The worst kind of person is the one that dares God.

It’s called “Tempting the Lord your God.”

All those times the Lord didn’t expose you, or something didn’t happen after your sin you thought that God would never deal with you after your sin.

Then the moment of truth came.

Sadly, some will continue in their arrogance.

Even though people know all about your Secret Sexual Sins, because the urges and impulses rule you, you continue as if God will never judge you.

Then there are those that expose themselves because the sin was egregious. They have understood that they’ve hurt the heart of the Father and desire to get it right BEFORE exposure would come.

As a result, God honors your obedience but when you took it to another level in exposing your own sin, you gave God no story to tell on you. You’ve confessed and forsook that sin and God abundantly pardoned you. The thing that you do after you expose yourself is you must now maintain your deliverance for the rest of your life.

You are to govern your life so that your talk lines up with your life. Your confession is only as good as your lifetime maintenance, otherwise you are disqualified before the people.

When your exposure comes, again it is a result of your willful neglect to respect the power of God to expose your sin. Never leave God a reason to expose you. Give Him a reason to give you grace and mercy. Be willing to stand like a man or a woman and remain clean for the rest of your life.

God doesn’t demand that you be perfect. He demands that you be holy every moment of your life.

As Jesus commanded the man at the pool of Bethesda and the woman caught in adultery, “Go! And sin no more lest a worse thing come on you, and Go! And sin no more!!!, so you go and do the same.

Finally, there is a difference between a mistake and deliberate sin.

When we confuse mistakes with deliberate sin, we are concealing and minimizing our willful disobedience to continue in sin. Let’s own up to our responsibility and deal ruthlessly with ourselves and deal with sin the way God would deal with it.

Kill it by exposing it ourselves and then learn to obey God’s Word to be holy for the rest of our lives.