Weak willed pastors can hardly resist hot looking women that come to church for one thing. To take a minister and his ministry down. Very few could resist a sex starved woman and find themselves taking advantage of emotionally defenseless single or married women.
A women’s vulnerability attracts a man willing to come to her “rescue.”
It doesn’t matter if he is married. A woman’s “vulnerability,” when presented, will make a strong man vulnerable. Vulnerable in the sense that he is not thinking and he will do everything to “save” her.
Many people do not realize that there are women on demonic assignment to destroy families.
“Now therefore, listen to me, my children; pay attention to the words of my mouth: do not let your heart turn aside to her ways, do not stray into her paths; for she has cast down many wounded, and all who were slain by her were strong men, her house is the way to hell, descending to the chambers of death.”
Solomon knew what he was talking about because he was taken down to hell by 1000 women (see 1 Kings 11:1-13).
Many weakhearted married pastors fell for the smooth talking, sex starved sex pot women. For the demonically inspired women, there is no excuse. For those that cannot control their hormones, you can discipline yourself to stay away from married pastors.
For those on assignment by the devil, there is deliverance but you have to break everything in your mind to follow the Word of God for the rest of your life.
Many women will read this and feel that it is an attack on women.
Quite the contrary.
We all know that men are sight minded. Jesus made this clear in Matthew 5:27-30. When a man looks lustfully at a woman, he commits adultery in his heart.
Then the Lord gives the anecdote that will hurt.
“If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body be cast into hell.”
Was Jesus serious?
This is called “radical amputation.”
This phrase was coined by Mike Cleveland of Setting Captives Free in a course called “Way To Purity.” I am an alumnus of this 60 day accountability course of no porn and masturbation, and by the Spirit of God, Mike was not kidding.
Proverbs 27:20 says,
“Hell and destruction are never full, so the eyes of man are never satisfied.”
What was Jesus implying here?
Hebrews 12:4 says,
“You have not yet resisted unto blood, striving against sin.”
In these Scriptures, the Word is alluding to the fact that if you cannot stop sinning sexually, it’s time to amputate. Now do not go to the hospital to request amputation. Do not go to the kitchen and pull out a knife to start cutting body parts.
Spiritually speaking, what are you willing to do to stop sinning sexually?
Are you willing to cut off the TV, satellite, cable, movies, magazines, sexually explicit video games, beach parties, backyard pool barbecues, walking the street just to run into the eye candy of the day, looking away from the crowd of women on the bus, train, walking the street, walking in church?
WHAT ABOUT SEXUAL IMMORAL LOOKING WOMEN ON FB?
And you know it’s the truth because they (sexual immoral women) are everywhere and that’s the bottom line.
You all know that there are many other places on the Internet and other forms of filing sexual images that we need to cut off.
When a woman comes across your line of sight, are you going to look at her lustfully, or are you going to exercise the discipline necessary not to file the image in your lust compartment to meditate on later at night?
Notice what the Lord said. “right eye…pluck it out…right hand…cut it off…”
When it comes to masturbation, I believe that the Lord knew exactly what men would do with these images as level one sex addicts. We men see feminine images and file them for consumption.
This “consumption” is exactly what Jesus was talking about in Matthew 5:28.
But the meditation of having sex with her in our minds isn’t enough. We move to the bedroom, and pretend to have sex with that image in our minds by way of masturbation.
When the Lord Jesus said to cut off your hand, this is exactly what He was talking about. But not just cutting off the hand to prevent it from masturbating. It includes preventing to have a live body to “act out” sexually with. Either by prostitution or by meeting up with that person we’ve lusted after to perform the pinnacle of level one sex addiction.
Getting back to my point.
Women do come to church to hatch a plan to destroy a man. In my studies on “Healthy Sexuality” it is known that sex addicted women view their sexuality as “power over a man.”
Then there are women that are drug addicts and alcoholics that use their bodies to get what they want. Money for drugs and alcohol, pay for higher education, or for power. The ones that lust for power are called Jezebels.
Then there are women that desire connection and will use men sexually for feminine affirmation and self esteem purposes. They will offer their bodies to satisfy connectivity needs.
These women believe that their femininity is irresistible and a man is vulnerable to a woman’s beauty. So they set the trap and those that are on assignment will either work their way to the pinnacle of their plan or they set out to outright go for their target.
There are women that will marry and then divorce that man. Then marry again to another and then divorce that man until they get to the one they intended all along.
Married pastor’s wife, be on the look out!
Then the blind pastor puts these women in powerful positions in church and then, they make their move to commit adultery with the pastor.
Most men will walk up to them and these women will shake them off because they already have in mind their intended target.
The married pastor.
Women that are married to pastors and preachers, you need to keep your eye out for these women. They are already sent on assignment and they know exactly what to do to take your husband away from you. Their plan is simple and all they are waiting for is for you to not believe that they are after your husband. They want what you have and they will subtly creep in and win your trust just to betray that trust when your husband, as blind as he is, leave you for her.
The sexual immoral woman is what the Preacher in Proverbs is talking about.
There are two levels of sexual immoral women.
LEVEL ONE: The Harlot
“For by means of a harlot a man is reduced to a crust of bread; and an adulteress will prey upon his precious life.”
The Hebrew word for “harlot” is “zanah” and it means “to commit adultery (usually of the female, and less often of simple fornication, rarely of involuntary ravishment).” Involuntary ravishment means a man forcing himself on a woman, also known as rape because ravishment means “the crime of forcing a woman to submit to sexual intercourse against her will.”
She sets up her passive conquest. And the wife of a pastor or minister must pay close attention to who approaches her husband.
Men are blind when beauty comes before them.
I say again.
MEN ARE BLIND WHEN BEAUTY COMES BEFORE THEM.
Unless they are disciplined, they will not think that a woman is playing on the prey. Soon, they are sucked into the jaws of the harlot and one thing leads to another.
Innocent conversations has a way of leading a man to the trapdoor of hell.
Ladies, in my groundbreaking series called “Secret Sexual Sins” on BlogTalkRadio.com, I’ve already discussed the slick preacher that takes advantage of innocent women that truly need spiritual help; only to be beguiled by a predator. So this is not as one sided as you think.
However, it takes two to tango.
LEVEL TWO: The Adulteress
These woman plan on marrying the one they stole. Notice what Proverbs 6:26, the latter portion said.
“And an adulteress will prey upon his precious life.”
A woman, single woman wants a married life and when they see what other married women have, they go after it. Sometimes they go after it wrongly. The life of a married man is precious. Especially when you see that he loves his wife. Cares for his wife. Takes care of his responsibilities. Is very low maintenance. These are strengths that provide security for a woman.
But hidden underneath all of this good, sometimes a man has problems and issues that spillover into his marriage.
Sometimes events are events of “perfect timing.”
A man may be having issues and all of a sudden, here comes…trouble.
The other thing that men are not aware of is that when they are down, they look for a pick me up. Women are natural pick me ups because they know how to “nurture.”
Perfect timing of the devil to bring someone that knows how to use her femininity to nurture a man that is having “issues” in the marriage.
While there are a wide variety of issues, we can see how the devil takes advantage and we must guard against them. One of the last sins that was mentioned in the Book of Revelation is “sexual immorality.”
In our sex crazed society, we see that there is an increase in the lures and traps. From handheld devices to live action in church, there is no lack of “opportunities” for the devil to bring temptation. It’s no different than the Book of Numbers, chapters 19 through 25.
The principle is no different. Purity, Victory, Sexual Immorality, Defeat.
In almost every church, the element of harlotry and adultery is there. But what are we going to do to keep it from ruining a powerful ministry?
2 Corinthians 6:14-18 and 7:1 is the answer among other Biblical answers.
Additionally, you must make a concerted effort to look out for these harlots and adulterers.
When they come, do not just look to keep them in check. Some of them may not even know that they are on assignment of the devil. Which means that if they are ready to receive the Word, you must be ready and willing to minister to them.
Depending upon where the former harlot and adulterer are, it may be necessary to defer them to another ministry that is strong in the Lord and the Word.
Wisdom. Pray for wisdom.
Those that refuse and insist on a course to destroy a man, his marriage, and the local church, they must be shown the door. And when they land in another location, if you know where they are, it is best to inform the next pastor of their actions so they could be prepared to handle it appropriately.
God is looking to bring His church into the place of holiness and we must never “give place to the devil.”