(NKJV Strong’s) “…and be sure your sin will find you out.”
The children of Israel were warned by Moses that when they lose in battle, look to sin as the first place to look.
I’ll return to this in a moment.
According to Wikipedia, he was born to Jewish parents.
I quote “Epstein was born in 1953, in the New York City borough of Brooklyn, to Jewish parents Pauline (née Stolofsky, 1918–2004) and Seymour G. Epstein (1916–1991). His parents were married in 1952, shortly before his birth.”
Epstein was arrested for sex trafficking. This of course, was connected to his past arrest for under aged prostitution.
Sex with minors.
When you see money and professional positions of power, it’s inextricably connected to empowerment, entitlement, elitism, and finally expediency.
These are common traits among the people with power and money.
In every profession.
From spiritual to other places of power where men and women are, the temptation to egregiously take advantage of people is great.
While this is still under investigation, so far, unless otherwise noted, suicide may be the cause of death.
But it all comes to an end, one way or another.
Facing 45 years at age 66. Do the math.
Or commit what will happen inevitably.
The females that were allegedly abused by Epstein and others, came forward, and that’s all they needed.
I don’t intend to engage or entertain conspiracy theories.
That’s not the point.
But when accusation of sexual immorality come forward and investigations uncover layers of sexual sins, and their potential participants, it’s just a matter of time before something comes to a head.
Sadly, this is the thing that is out in the open with people in high places.
But we all know that the not so powerful, rich, and famous, engage in the same activity.
Just look in your quiet neighborhoods, urban and suburban neighborhoods.
Is it as you think it is, or is it just too quiet.
Millions of young girls, under aged, are sexually exploited. Trafficked to far away places or local places under the nose of ordinary people.
Amber alerts, child kidnapping. Drive by kidnapping.
Or perhaps, for the money to engage in financing your drugs, you “do work.”
Thousands are taken away from families and pimped.
Just imagine your daughter is kidnapped and is sexually violated for years.
The death of Epstein ought to be a beacon to send the signal that human trafficking is taking place even as we speak.
Someone’s daughter is being kidnapped and raped by sex craved men.
Somewhere, a man is tired of porn and masturbation, and want to take things to the next level.
More than ever, we need the Lord.
However, man will not come to the Lord.
In sin, they drown and more daughters will be abused.
Epstein’s sin found him out, before his suicide.
Just imagine if Jeffrey Epstein found grace in the eyes of God instead of suicide?
And before the end of the day, worldwide, 155,000 will lose their lives.
Will sin find you out?
The children if Israel sinned on numerous occasions, and sin found them out.
And finally, they were exiled for 70 years in Babylon as punishment for their sin.
The pattern is clear to us as well. If we have sin in our lives, it will find us out. And when it does, the penalty or severity of the penalty will come upon us.
Suicide is not the penalty or severity of the penalty.
Epstein skirted human judgment but will not skirt eternal judgment.
Epstein committed suicide for whatever reason, but for years, he seemed to have skirted judgment.
Many will say he deserved hell for what he’s done.
“The wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ or Lord.”
IF we’re not saved, “All have sinned and come short of the glory of God.”
We all deserve hell. But thank God that He sent Jesus to die for our sins, paid our penalty, and gives us eternal life. That is if we repent, and ask the Lord for forgiveness.
So before any of us become so quick to wish the pit of hell for Epstein and others, we need to take a close look at ourselves. Because everyone of us deserve hell, and the lake which burns with fire and brimstone.
You could read the ongoing story here
Holding men and pastors accountable for the abortion of a child conceived in fornication and or adultery.
We all know that it takes two to tango (have sex).
But when things heat up like fire, all of the prohibitions are deliberately bypassed.
From a nice kiss, to necking, to full body contact, & touching areas to sexually arouse a person, and then straight to full sex before marriage.
These days, social media is the meeting place to establish a rendezvous for fornication or adultery. They don’t go out on a first date to “test the waters.”
They simply say when and where, hook up, and then hook up (lips and hips).
Even ignoring STDs.
It’s very dangerous out there and generally, people don’t care.
Paul said to “Flee fornication.”
Men are aggressive, but the woman is equally aggressive, but more so passively like a Venus fly trap. But also, some women don’t want to appear “loose,” but when the man insists and smooth talks her, we’re taken back to the Garden of Eden (pleasure).
satan engaged in a smooth talking conversation with Eve, all based on her discussion about the tree of the knowledge of good and evil with Adam.
She had an interest in that tree and not the tree of life, planted by the Lord right next to each other.
satan knew that she had a conflict with her husband and wanted to have that tree. She was interested in its power called “good and evil.”
She insisted and needed a reason to partake of that specific tree, AFTER God told Adam that he could eat of all the trees in the Garden, EXCEPT that tree.
After being misled by satan, that she would be like God, knowing good and evil, the adversary lied to her and told her that she wouldn’t die and she believed it.
The lust in her mind had received another word that would counter the Word of God. She established in her mind enough reason to get to be like God, knowing good and evil, break the commandment, and not be held accountable for it.
When she was told that, in outright defiance, she walked right up to that tree with eyes of lust and lust in her mind, took of that tree, and ate.
But nothing consequential happened to her…yet.
It’s like you ran the stop sign but you didn’t get caught.
If something consequential didn’t happen to one person, it emboldens the others to do it.
Adam was right there with her, she gave him the fruit, and he ate.
That’s when their eyes were opened. They knew that they were naked, and in shame, made figs to cover themselves.
Sin brought forth death.
The same sequence in one way or another happens in the bed of fornicators and adulterers. They lie to each other that nothing will happen.
For men, condoms are a pain. You have to stop to put it on. For women, there’s so many contraceptives but each one has risks.
Even though abortion is known to be decreasing, and that’s because of other methods employed to “fix” what the world says is “the problem.”
But abortion still is, perhaps, the most common way to kill a life to pretend that it’s ending a pregnancy, deceiving ourselves into thinking that the abortion/murder affects only the body of the woman.
In fact, it’s clearly documented that when an abortionist/murderer goes into the womb to snuff out that child’s life, the child pushes itself up into the deepest part of the womb to avoid the pain.
Remarkably, doctors are able to operate on a child in the womb, and the child understands the difference.
This false narrative of “It’s MY Body!!!” is used to deceive people into thinking that the baby, conceived in sin, isn’t affected at all. Also by not calling what’s conceived, “a child,” and call it an unfounded word fetus, is a critical delusion, bought by most people.
The drum beat of “It’s my body” is another grave false narrative to get us detracted from the brutal murder of the body inside the mother’s body.
But the abortionist is pulling out a child, limb by limb. Heads are crushed by forceps, the back of their necks are cut open, their body parts are harvested, and the rest of this babies is placed in red biohazard bags, boxed up, and then sent to facilities to be cremated.
While in the Old Testament, babies were murdered outside the womb, burned at the altar of Molech as a sacrifice to this god. However, babies today, are murdered in the womb but pulled out, each part accounted for, and cremated.
That’s the only difference.
God knows each child’s name.
So what happens is that the male goes free, having enjoyed his sex, while the woman enjoyed the sex too, but is given the task to get rid of the child, and they call it “stopping the pregnancy.”
So the cowardly male gets to walk away. Some of them insist that the woman he impregnated get an abortion. He can’t afford child support but he could afford fornication.
A few years ago, 400 male pastors were found on a list soliciting sex from a site sponsoring adultery. They would anonymously enter these sites, use their credit card, establish a rendezvous, commit adultery, all without their wives not knowing what they were doing.
It’s common knowledge that porn stars are prostitutes. And it’s common knowledge that prostitutes, when they get pregnant, they arrive at the death house to end the life of a baby.
We all know that there’s more than 400 pastors that do this.
Their names were discovered in a hacking incident.
Pretty much, the Lord that they claimed to be living and preaching about, exposed them.
So far, we know of one pastor that committed suicide, leaving a wife and three children to fend for themselves because he couldn’t handle his exposure.
Even sadder is the fact that some of them were responsible for the deaths of children because of lust in their hearts.
Just as Adam failed to protect Eve from satan, males fail to protect the woman and their child conceived in sin.
This is not to be taken as advocating or giving license to commit sexual immorality. However, we all know that sexual immorality will continue because males and females refuse to sexually control themselves.
And make no mistake about it, they will be judged by God according to Hebrews 13:4 and Revelation 21:8.
If there were a law that would make the male responsible for impregnating the woman before she would get the abortion, I don’t know if it would make a dent in curbing sexual immorality, but one thing’s for sure.
Already, in the court of Almighty God, every sexually immoral man will give an account of his sin.
Both the male and the female are equally charged as a co-conspirators.
Complicit and guilty of fornication/adultery, and guilty of murder.
However, before their deaths, if they repent, the Lord promised to forgive them (see Isaiah 55:6-7).
But they have to be born again, never to sin sexually again.
You could read the article here
A few years ago, I received an alert from the Holy Spirit. He told me not to watch the Super Bowl. I sensed this same urgency this year. Since that first warning, I’ve never watched the Super Bowl again.
I’ve sequestered my heart from sports events because of their association with abrasive sexual immorality in the media world. I am not imposing this upon others that watch sports.
I’m trying not to be legalistic with you but UNGODLY TV is just waiting on your need to be entertained and deliberately plant several sensual seeds into your mind. Jesus said in Matthew 6:22-23…
“The lamp of the body is the eye. If therefore your eye is good, your whole body will be full of light.
But if your eye is bad, your whole body will be full of darkness. If therefore the light that is in you is darkness, how great is that darkness!”
Your eye represent the portal by which evil or good enters.
If what you’re desiring is good or evil, you will look at good or evil.
Then we try to cleanse our minds of the filth and sometimes it’s not as successful. That’s because we try to pray and we can’t get through to God. Like clogged drains, our hearts are muddied with the world.
I know the dangers of pictures well enough to know that it’s a set up to get my heart polluted with the world. The gains that I’ve achieved in the Lord were hard fought gains. I cannot give the devil ground. Ephesians 4:27 says, “Neither give place to the devil.”
Jesus said in John 14:30, “the ruler of this world is coming and he has nothing in me.”
It’s called the zero factor.
If the Bible is true, and I believe it is, we can put a halt to everything that the devil use to do in us. We close off the areas where he was once lord.
2 Corinthians 10:4-5 says, “The weapons of our warfare are not carnal but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds. Casting down imaginations and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God. Bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ…..”
Temptation is just a suggestion and the Lord will not allow satan “to tempt us beyond that which we are able to resist, but will with the temptation also make a way of escape that we may be able to bear it” according to 1 Corinthians 10:13.
As with all men, football is a right of passage for men and since they’ve really increased the visibility and entertainment aspect of professional football, unbeknownst to us, the other not so well seen activities have increased.
Any city that gets the Super Bowl opens up the door to sexual predators and addicts on every level. With these sports venue, the amount of sexual immorality increases.
Normally, it would be about female prostitutes, but there is no question that male prostitutes are available for homosexuals. Let’s not forget bisexual activity is part of the game.
High end escorts, and other activities and kidnapping, drugs, alcohol, gambling. It’s all interconnected.
For professed believers, they will watch the Super Bowl too.
And of course the Halftime show.
Once again a seductress will be on display.
And professed Christian men will once again be slain at her altar.
Proverbs 7:24-27 “Now therefore, listen to me, my children;
Pay attention to the words of my mouth: Do not let your heart turn aside to her ways, Do not stray into her paths; For she has cast down many wounded, And all who were slain by her were strong men. Her house is the way to hell, Descending to the chambers of death.”
You may not be with her in bed, but your heart and mind is there, and you join with the spirit of the harlot as you masturbate.
Remember what the Lord said about cutting off your hands and plucking out your eyes.
Are we men to abstain from the Super Bowl?
If you love God more than anything, you know what you have to do.
Am I imposing legalism? Am I a “Pharisee?”
In your mind, I know that you are thinking about these things. But let’s look at pleasing the Lord for a moment.
In fact, why don’t you turn on the halftime show and ask the Lord to watch it approvingly with you. Sarcastically, I’m sure the Lord Jesus will give you the thumbs up.
You know good and well that the world is not going to spare your eyes with feminine power. Ladies, we are not berating you. We are opposed to sexual immoral women and men. Everything that is of the world, we must hate it as God hates it.
If you do not hate what God hates and love what God loves, James 4:4 abides on you.
Romans 8 tells us that they that are in the flesh cannot please God. There is no life and peace in the things of the flesh.
Remember what the Lord Jesus said in Matthew 5:28 “But I say to you that whoever looks at a woman to lust for her has already committed adultery with her in his heart.”
You do not have to have her physically to be slain by her and descend into hell.
1 John 2:15-17 says “Do not love the world or the things in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For all that is in the world —the lust of the flesh, the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life — is not of the Father but is of the world. And the world is passing away, and the lust of it; but he who does the will of God abides forever.”
But these men will watch anyway.
No true love for God and His Word.
They will ignore the warning from the Holy Spirit and be engulfed in lust. They will file these vile images in their minds to masturbate off of later.
Then there will be those that will heed the warning from the Holy Spirit according to Matthew 5:27-28, Romans 13:11-14, 1 Corinthians 10:13, 2 Corinthians 6:14-18, 7:1, James 1:21, Hebrews 12:14, and Job 31:1.
God in heaven, in Jesus’ name, we pray that each man will take heed and cleanse himself from the evil that will be displayed on network TV. That they would abstain from the appearance of evil.
That they would not entertain the temptation of the enemy. But that they would fill their mind with You and Your Word. That each man would learn how to sanctify they hearts.
That they would fight the urge to watch perversion and evil. That they would keep their eyes on You, Lord. That they would not set any wicked thing before their eyes according to Psalm 101:3.
The story regarding the announcement of this seductress could be read here.
High class call girls, male prostitutes, drugs of every kind, and other criminal elements descend on these places like metal attracted to a magnet.
Strip or “gentlemen’s” clubs will be taking in business. Bars will have Super Bowl parties and those doing “work” will be available.
The millions of people that watch the Super Bowl halftime show and the many 30 second commercials, some of them with obvious suggestions of sex, will lure many unsuspecting men to the altar of lust.
It happens every year.
The wardrobe malfunction with Janet Jackson and the sexually provocatively seductress Beyonce` deliberately set the stage to attract more people to watch the halftime show.
But it did more than that.
The sexual immorality attached to these sports events open up the flood gates for more men to engage in fornication, adultery, and prostitution. The cities that sponsor these major sports events hunger for these championship games because of the additional tax revenue for their governments. The criminal element pounces on these events and make elaborate plans so they would not miss the action.
In 1 Timothy 6:10(a), Paul told Timothy that “The love of money is the root of all kinds of evil…”
But here is the other side of the situation with residual revenue. Men are sexually enticed by the things of the flesh after the Super Bowl is over. And I am talking about around the country and the world, not just at the arena.
Men and women will engage in homosexuality, porn, masturbation, fornication, adultery, male and female prostitution.
I didn’t know how interconnected these things were until I came across a ministry that had an open air bus. This bus had windows that you could see through. On the bus, they had women that looked like they were sexually abused.
It’s goal was to drive around the major sports events to uncover or expose the fact that prostitution, adultery, and fornication were taking place in the area of the many hotels. These abused looking women was a glimpse into the real world of major sports events.
We who are called children of the Most High God must “Abstain from every form of evil.”
We contribute to these events by watching porn, masturbating, solicit prostitutes, commit fornication and adultery. You can throw homosexuality into the mix because male prostitution is involved. As I have shared, it’s called “The Seamless Fabric.”
It’s all interconnected. There is no way to separate one immoral act from another.
All who commit these things falls under the category of “Sexual Immorality.”
Those that never break free are worshippers at the altar of lust. Perversion is their doctrine and many will fail to escape until they repent, seek the face of God, and replace false intimacy with the world with true intimacy with God.
As innocent as the Super Bowl may be, in the back ground will be scantily clad cheerleaders. Commercials with sexuality in it. Advertisement of movies with sexual content. All of these things are traps and bait for the foolish man that deceives themselves into thinking that they are strong enough to withstand the intended attack of the devil.
Not realizing that the devil took a page out of the Lord’s book.
“The sower sows the Word.”
The devil intends to sow many seeds of perversion.
Even for females.
Men in tights is a definite sexual attack on women that intend to watch the Super Bowl.
She is not watching the game for the game but she is watching men.
Lust operates in the heart of women as it does for men.
And yes, there will be commercials that will lure women. She will observe feminine power over men. She will observe masculine power over women. These things will enliven world passions to excite the flesh and mind to fulfill demonic fantasies.
In 1 Timothy 4:1-2, Paul said,
“Now the Spirit expressly says that in latter times some will depart from the faith, giving heed to deceiving spirits and doctrines of demons, speaking lies in hypocrisy, having their own conscience seared with a hot iron…”
The media has served its purpose as the main instrument to communicate doctrines of demons.
When the Body of Christ fails to wake up to see the schemes, strategies, and methods the devils employ, before we know it, a demonic seed is planted within us and a harvest is expected should we cultivate that seed. We water demonic seeds by watering it in mediation. We allow it to establish a root in us and then we become unfruitful.
We wither like a branch (backslide into the world). Instead of producing fruit, we do the opposite. We become unfruitful. Meaning that we no longer produce good fruit for pruning. Then at the moment we least suspect, the Vinedresser, according to John chapter 15 comes and cuts us off from the True Vine.
Sexual immorality is not worth going to hell over.
If men and women that profess faith in Christ could recognize that the crafty works of the devil are at work in the earth according to Ephesians 2:1-4 and Ephesians 6:10-18, we could do a lot to please the Lord and protect our hearts from the evil one.
Proverbs 4:23 says “Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life.”
And 1 John 5:18-19 says “We know that whoever is born of God does not sin; but he who has been born of God keeps himself, and the wicked one does not touch him. We know that we are of God, and the whole world lies under the sway of the wicked one.”
Finally, this powerful Scripture in Psalm 101:3 “I will set nothing wicked before my eyes; I hate the work of those who fall away; it shall not cling to me. A perverse heart shall depart from me; I will not know wickedness.”
Another professional football player was suspended because he head butted his wife after his wife refused to have sex with him.
There used to be a time that I would watch NFL games, but in the past, since part of the culture of professional sports factor in the sex pots for display on the field and on the sidelines, I’ve decided to curtail watching professional sports.
The same with boxing.
In between rounds, here they come.
It’s substitute soft porn.
If you are wondering why football players and perhaps, other sports figures are attacking their wives, while there is always two sides to every story, to assault a woman is wrong. For women, the other side could also be said of verbally assaulting a husband or boyfriend.
Yes, some, not all women, do say some things that will trigger an assault. But even if she did say something to set a man off, a man is physically capable of killing her and NO MAN HAS A RIGHT TO PUT THEIR HANDS ON A WOMAN!!!!
These days, a woman is capable of killing a man with her words and with her hands.
Fellas, when anger is about to get the best of you, take it out on a tree, mirror, car, or a wall. Sisters, as much as you would like to cut the brother up with your words, choose them carefully or better yet, say nothing.
Regardless of the situation, a man must control himself and never cross the line into domestic violence.
Damaging words from a woman can hurt a man worse than a bullet or a blade.
Again, it may not be the reason behind the recent incidents of professional sports domestic violence, but it is worth looking into.
There is an unmistakable connection with sexuality and sports.
Just like in church between single and married women in church where there is a single or married pastor.
Sadly, in any venue, it’s all a sport until HOLINESS is the only rule in church.
Desperate Housewives and EX Preachers Wives is a classic example of loose living. These things spilled over into the church a long time before they are paraded on the TV. The drama in the house of worship is nothing new or surprising. But woman involved in domestic violence as a victim is a silent number in the house of God. There is no question in my mind that women that experienced some form of domestic violence sit in church as silent victims.
Until they come forward, we will never know who needs help, deliverance, and freedom.
Without this aspect, while there is no statistics, male viewership probably would decline if the sexual aspect of sports were removed. I believe it feeds into the connections to hard core porn on other PPV (pay per view) channels, strip clubs, brothels, and other exotic arenas. In some instances, some local churches is all of the above.
The use of a female body on the sidelines as sexual objects in boxing rings and other venues is unmistakably and undeniably connected.
At major sports venues, the prostitution and high end escorts are there to take advantage of those that are undisciplined.
As far as the professional players are concerned, while most sports clubs have a policy to keep players away from the cheerleaders, it is known that connections for fornication and adultery do happen.
We are not saying that in the cases of domestic abuse with NFL players were a result of their husbands crossing the sin line but it would not surprise me in the least.
The world of professional sports has its own dark world and anything to disrupt it wouldn’t destroy it. It would expose it but darkness has a way of keeping things in the dark even after it is exposed.
For more on this unfortunate episode among professional sports figures, please click here.
Let’s exchange numbers so we can hook up.
Two days later…..
TEXT: Salacious female and male pics exchanged. My place or yours?
The feel of flesh and the heated passion of hot sex; culminating in orgasmic climax.
One month later…..
I know I didn’t miss my period! God, don’t make me pregnant!!!
Oh! What am I gonna do?
I gotta text him. He is not responding. I got to call him.
Pick up the phone. Pick up the phone…..Finally!!!
“Honey, I think I’m pregnant.” Nah! You can’t be. But if you are, we can’t afford it. So go down to the clinic and “fix” it. We can’t have a kid now.”
Proverbs 23:27-28 says……
“For a whore is a deep ditch; and a strange woman is a narrow pit. She also lieth in wait as for a prey, and increaseth the transgressors among men.”
Proverbs 30:20 says…
“This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth,
And says, “I have done no wickedness.”
Paul said this in 1 Corinthians 6:12-13…….
“All things are lawful for me, but all things are not helpful. All things are lawful for me, but I will not be brought under the power of any. Foods for the stomach and the stomach for foods, but God will destroy both it and them. Now the body is not for sexual immorality but for the Lord, and the Lord for the body.”
Paul also said in verses 9-11….
“Do you not know that the unrighteous will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived. Neither fornicators, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor homosexuals, nor sodomites, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor revilers, nor extortioners will inherit the kingdom of God. And such were some of you. But you were washed, but you were sanctified, but you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus and by the Spirit of our God.”
And if you think that sexting is just out there in the world, you got another thought coming. After service, sexting takes place among the so called “righteous.”
Pictures of strange flesh from people proclaiming to be children of God to commit the sin of adultery or fornication, or worse, bisexuality as well as homosexuality.
It’s not just the males that are at fault. The women that set sex traps for the blind and dumb males that can’t see that it’s a trap are also at fault. There are some women that take pleasure in their seductive powers to entrap a boneheaded, below the waist thinking male.
There is two sides to the story and innocence will never be found where two are caught in their tango. Women cannot be blamed alone and neither should the male. Both are guilty and both are culpable.
The abortion industry knows it can count on males and females not to control themselves, and they are also counting on contraceptive failure. The contraceptive industry is not guaranteeing that you will not conceive a child.
They only tell you that “You reduce the risk…”
They are counting on you to be daring enough that after one use of a condom, you would opt back to the naturally intended way to have sex.
Anyone that uses contraceptives knows that you have to stop to put one on. And to start, stop, and start is an eternity to get back what you started. Passion.
Something is always lost.
In the passion, you put it on quickly, you put it on wrong or worse, it breaks before or during penetration. And it happens to be the last one that breaks. So you quickly go natural to regain the passion of Secret Sexual Sins if you are not married, or you are married and you commit the sin of adultery.
The contraceptive industry doesn’t mind if they make a little money along the way at your perverted expense.
Additionally, they use some chemicals that potentially harm or bring discomfort to some females in the reproductive areas. Which is just another way for you to go see the doctor and financially fuel the medical industry, one way of another.
But you do not care.
All you are concerned about it getting off.
In the United States, 1.3 million abortions will take place. That means 2.6 million males and females will kill an unborn child to cover their night of fun and pleasure in bed.
The bloodshed has reached pandemic proportions. One life snuffed out is a pandemic because it is easier to go into the womb of a woman to snuff out a life than to abstain.
This is a lie of the devil and you know it.
In the abortion clinics of the United States, blood is shed every week but the tide seems to be turning. The statistics show that people are now realizing the preciousness of life. It is amazing when you watch a video of the unborn in the womb, fighting the doctor to live.
Early in their development, the child develop the instinct to fight.
It leaves me to believe that if the child was an adult and was attacked, it would fight back. And probably would kill the doctor to live.
But the child. So small, so precious, so helpless, is also so powerless to fight back to save his or her life. The mother, doctors, and nurses just watch, as bits and pieces is extracted out and the precious life is reduced to….destroyed bits of flesh that once resembled a breathing child.
Abortion is a multi-billion dollar medical industry that relies on the undisciplined male and female to make money. The abortion industry rely on the “mistake.” The failure of contraceptives, and the desire for full flesh contact for enjoyable sex, makes the decision to kill an unborn child easy. Your sin gives Planned Abortionhood the audacious permission to kill.
Some of you are saying that the guilt is enough and that the pain of knowing that you killed an innocent life is unbearable.
By giving that male the use of your body, you are counting on him being around for you. What was once valuable is severely cheapened. And he really doesn’t care, neither did he care about you because if you know anything about males, you are just a number. You didn’t make him work for it (marriage, a real ring, and unquestioned, forever commitment).
You were easy and you are now just another one of those heartbroken women that counted on his love.
Many of you have already read about one man that had 30 kids by 11 women.
His name….Desmond Hattchet, age 33.
In his last court case, he told a judge that he was unable to pay child support because he only makes minimum wage. So, these 11 women gave up the use of their bodies to him. And now, they can’t depend upon him.
All 11 women either played him for a sucker by seducing him or were innocent women that fell for his male personality and bedroom action, hoping that he would stay with them after you gave him your body and a child. Sometimes, women use the femininity to milk the resources of the government. And like lightening, the government is making it very difficult to access these resources because in many cities across the nation, they could no longer afford to give single parents the kinds of help they desperately need.
They are asking the government to be their husband, protector, and provider.
Relief from the courts is lengthy and collection of any child support is a stretch, at best. But whoredom continues in the land and now, with Planned Abortionhood being investigated for fraud, states governments reducing funding to abortion clinics, it’s getting really grim. All over the country, some abortion clinics are closing due to little, to no funding. The lost revenue to meet their budget and the abortion demand ratio is increasing considerably. In other words, as costs per abortion increases, lack of funding pushes the apparatus beyond its limits.
Reading the other day that Mississippi has only one abortion clinic in the state and that it is under siege by anti abortion laws? This is welcomed news.
There are many single parents (women) that have males that are incarcerated, doing maximum time behind bars. These heartbroken women are struggling to do what they can to make up for the absentee dad.
As I was watching Louisiana Lockdown of Louisiana’s Maximum Security Prison, Angola on NatGeo, an inmate was permitted by Warden Burl Cain, (whom I’ve met back in 2009 with Bishop Eugene Tanniehill, a former death row inmate, released), to marry a woman he met during a Rodeo Event held on the 18000 acres of land of the former slave plantation, known as Angola.
The inmate Oliver Howard, is serving a prison sentence of 50 years for armed robbery. So far, he has served 14 years of that sentence. They had the wedding in the chapel and afterwards, it was time for all visitors, including his new wife, to leave.
It was a sad moment. They were unable to consummate the marriage. They’ll have to wait 36 years, if he is eligible for parole, to consummate the marriage.
Additionally, with a bad economy where males cannot get a good paying job, a lack of good education to command salaries, and a willful disregard to seek God and His righteousness, makes finding an “alpha male” an almost non existing thing. So women settle for less and for the rest of their lives, depending upon how many children they have, will needlessly struggle.
Abortion is usually a decision out of inconvenience and desperation. It is after the abortion that the realization of murder sets in the mind of the single woman. The only false comfort is that abortion was deemed legal in 1973. This false sense of comfort is easily suppressed by the conscience because an intentional fatal separation of mother and child took place.
Many regret that decision and the pain is unbearable. Sitting in that room while soft elevator music is playing while the mother, no longer to be, is grieving the loss of life.
Adam named the woman that God gave to him, Eve.
She was called that name because in the Hebrew it means, “mother of all living.”
Women were created to carry and birth life. There are many women that have miscarriages. And without controversy, abortions to save the life of the mother due to medical complications are a fact of reason and necessity. But for the most part, women were designed by the Lord to produce and nurture life.
In the abortion room, she is fighting against every maternal instinct embedded in the woman. Her mind is racing because she made the choice to lay with a male that really didn’t care about her. He failed in his responsibility like Adam in the Garden to protect, cover, and guard the wife.
The point that needs to be made is that the place of prevention is not when you are using contraceptives. The place of prevention is in abstinence. It’s in recognizing that should you go past the stop light, and accident is sure to happen. That if you are speeding, the trooper didn’t pull you over the first time, but eventually, it’s bound to happen.
Several months ago, I watched a video of a woman that was “sterilized” because the judge ruled her to be an unfit mother. This African American woman was declared to be uneducated or incompetent by a judge. She was later interviewed in the factually stunning documentary called Maafa21 and several years afterwards, she has a college degree.
I could only imagine what it’s like for a male to tell a woman to go and “fix” the problem.
This is not just an African American problem, although a staggering number of African Americans quickly resolve to kill their offspring because they cannot afford to raise that child. It affects the poor in almost every ethic group.
Go to the CDC stats and you will see that abortion is a national and international outrage.
Aren’t you glad that you are reading an article like this?
Aren’t you glad that you weren’t aborted. Just imagine the doctor pulling on you to kill you. And in Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, it is alleged that a doctor is known to pull live babies out of the womb and snap its neck. The horror of knowing that a child could have survived, was aborted after the child was born. This doctor allegedly induced labor and then extracted the child to be murdered. This didn’t happen once or twice. Several children were allegedly murdered.
This is the price of sexting. Whoredom in the land.
Weak willed pastors can hardly resist hot looking women that come to church for one thing. To take a minister and his ministry down. Very few could resist a sex starved woman and find themselves taking advantage of emotionally defenseless single or married women.
A women’s vulnerability attracts a man willing to come to her “rescue.”
It doesn’t matter if he is married. A woman’s “vulnerability,” when presented, will make a strong man vulnerable. Vulnerable in the sense that he is not thinking and he will do everything to “save” her.
Many people do not realize that there are women on demonic assignment to destroy families.
“Now therefore, listen to me, my children; pay attention to the words of my mouth: do not let your heart turn aside to her ways, do not stray into her paths; for she has cast down many wounded, and all who were slain by her were strong men, her house is the way to hell, descending to the chambers of death.”
Solomon knew what he was talking about because he was taken down to hell by 1000 women (see 1 Kings 11:1-13).
Many weakhearted married pastors fell for the smooth talking, sex starved sex pot women. For the demonically inspired women, there is no excuse. For those that cannot control their hormones, you can discipline yourself to stay away from married pastors.
For those on assignment by the devil, there is deliverance but you have to break everything in your mind to follow the Word of God for the rest of your life.
Many women will read this and feel that it is an attack on women.
Quite the contrary.
We all know that men are sight minded. Jesus made this clear in Matthew 5:27-30. When a man looks lustfully at a woman, he commits adultery in his heart.
Then the Lord gives the anecdote that will hurt.
“If your right eye causes you to sin, pluck it out and cast it from you; for it is profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body to be cast into hell. And if your right hand causes you to sin, cut it off and cast it from you; for it is more profitable for you that one of your members perish, than for your whole body be cast into hell.”
Was Jesus serious?
This is called “radical amputation.”
This phrase was coined by Mike Cleveland of Setting Captives Free in a course called “Way To Purity.” I am an alumnus of this 60 day accountability course of no porn and masturbation, and by the Spirit of God, Mike was not kidding.
Proverbs 27:20 says,
“Hell and destruction are never full, so the eyes of man are never satisfied.”
What was Jesus implying here?
Hebrews 12:4 says,
“You have not yet resisted unto blood, striving against sin.”
In these Scriptures, the Word is alluding to the fact that if you cannot stop sinning sexually, it’s time to amputate. Now do not go to the hospital to request amputation. Do not go to the kitchen and pull out a knife to start cutting body parts.
Spiritually speaking, what are you willing to do to stop sinning sexually?
Are you willing to cut off the TV, satellite, cable, movies, magazines, sexually explicit video games, beach parties, backyard pool barbecues, walking the street just to run into the eye candy of the day, looking away from the crowd of women on the bus, train, walking the street, walking in church?
WHAT ABOUT SEXUAL IMMORAL LOOKING WOMEN ON FB?
And you know it’s the truth because they (sexual immoral women) are everywhere and that’s the bottom line.
You all know that there are many other places on the Internet and other forms of filing sexual images that we need to cut off.
When a woman comes across your line of sight, are you going to look at her lustfully, or are you going to exercise the discipline necessary not to file the image in your lust compartment to meditate on later at night?
Notice what the Lord said. “right eye…pluck it out…right hand…cut it off…”
When it comes to masturbation, I believe that the Lord knew exactly what men would do with these images as level one sex addicts. We men see feminine images and file them for consumption.
This “consumption” is exactly what Jesus was talking about in Matthew 5:28.
But the meditation of having sex with her in our minds isn’t enough. We move to the bedroom, and pretend to have sex with that image in our minds by way of masturbation.
When the Lord Jesus said to cut off your hand, this is exactly what He was talking about. But not just cutting off the hand to prevent it from masturbating. It includes preventing to have a live body to “act out” sexually with. Either by prostitution or by meeting up with that person we’ve lusted after to perform the pinnacle of level one sex addiction.
Getting back to my point.
Women do come to church to hatch a plan to destroy a man. In my studies on “Healthy Sexuality” it is known that sex addicted women view their sexuality as “power over a man.”
Then there are women that are drug addicts and alcoholics that use their bodies to get what they want. Money for drugs and alcohol, pay for higher education, or for power. The ones that lust for power are called Jezebels.
Then there are women that desire connection and will use men sexually for feminine affirmation and self esteem purposes. They will offer their bodies to satisfy connectivity needs.
These women believe that their femininity is irresistible and a man is vulnerable to a woman’s beauty. So they set the trap and those that are on assignment will either work their way to the pinnacle of their plan or they set out to outright go for their target.
There are women that will marry and then divorce that man. Then marry again to another and then divorce that man until they get to the one they intended all along.
Married pastor’s wife, be on the look out!
Then the blind pastor puts these women in powerful positions in church and then, they make their move to commit adultery with the pastor.
Most men will walk up to them and these women will shake them off because they already have in mind their intended target.
The married pastor.
Women that are married to pastors and preachers, you need to keep your eye out for these women. They are already sent on assignment and they know exactly what to do to take your husband away from you. Their plan is simple and all they are waiting for is for you to not believe that they are after your husband. They want what you have and they will subtly creep in and win your trust just to betray that trust when your husband, as blind as he is, leave you for her.
The sexual immoral woman is what the Preacher in Proverbs is talking about.
There are two levels of sexual immoral women.
LEVEL ONE: The Harlot
“For by means of a harlot a man is reduced to a crust of bread; and an adulteress will prey upon his precious life.”
The Hebrew word for “harlot” is “zanah” and it means “to commit adultery (usually of the female, and less often of simple fornication, rarely of involuntary ravishment).” Involuntary ravishment means a man forcing himself on a woman, also known as rape because ravishment means “the crime of forcing a woman to submit to sexual intercourse against her will.”
She sets up her passive conquest. And the wife of a pastor or minister must pay close attention to who approaches her husband.
Men are blind when beauty comes before them.
I say again.
MEN ARE BLIND WHEN BEAUTY COMES BEFORE THEM.
Unless they are disciplined, they will not think that a woman is playing on the prey. Soon, they are sucked into the jaws of the harlot and one thing leads to another.
Innocent conversations has a way of leading a man to the trapdoor of hell.
Ladies, in my groundbreaking series called “Secret Sexual Sins” on BlogTalkRadio.com, I’ve already discussed the slick preacher that takes advantage of innocent women that truly need spiritual help; only to be beguiled by a predator. So this is not as one sided as you think.
However, it takes two to tango.
LEVEL TWO: The Adulteress
These woman plan on marrying the one they stole. Notice what Proverbs 6:26, the latter portion said.
“And an adulteress will prey upon his precious life.”
A woman, single woman wants a married life and when they see what other married women have, they go after it. Sometimes they go after it wrongly. The life of a married man is precious. Especially when you see that he loves his wife. Cares for his wife. Takes care of his responsibilities. Is very low maintenance. These are strengths that provide security for a woman.
But hidden underneath all of this good, sometimes a man has problems and issues that spillover into his marriage.
Sometimes events are events of “perfect timing.”
A man may be having issues and all of a sudden, here comes…trouble.
The other thing that men are not aware of is that when they are down, they look for a pick me up. Women are natural pick me ups because they know how to “nurture.”
Perfect timing of the devil to bring someone that knows how to use her femininity to nurture a man that is having “issues” in the marriage.
While there are a wide variety of issues, we can see how the devil takes advantage and we must guard against them. One of the last sins that was mentioned in the Book of Revelation is “sexual immorality.”
In our sex crazed society, we see that there is an increase in the lures and traps. From handheld devices to live action in church, there is no lack of “opportunities” for the devil to bring temptation. It’s no different than the Book of Numbers, chapters 19 through 25.
The principle is no different. Purity, Victory, Sexual Immorality, Defeat.
In almost every church, the element of harlotry and adultery is there. But what are we going to do to keep it from ruining a powerful ministry?
2 Corinthians 6:14-18 and 7:1 is the answer among other Biblical answers.
Additionally, you must make a concerted effort to look out for these harlots and adulterers.
When they come, do not just look to keep them in check. Some of them may not even know that they are on assignment of the devil. Which means that if they are ready to receive the Word, you must be ready and willing to minister to them.
Depending upon where the former harlot and adulterer are, it may be necessary to defer them to another ministry that is strong in the Lord and the Word.
Wisdom. Pray for wisdom.
Those that refuse and insist on a course to destroy a man, his marriage, and the local church, they must be shown the door. And when they land in another location, if you know where they are, it is best to inform the next pastor of their actions so they could be prepared to handle it appropriately.
God is looking to bring His church into the place of holiness and we must never “give place to the devil.”
It’s the worst feeling in the world to think that you can get away with Secret Sexual Sins.
It’s sad to think that we take His love, grace, and mercy for granted.
As I was reading the story of David’s sins, I can feel what he went through. Crossing the line. Thinking that there is no way possible that his sins would get called out or that he would get caught. When it comes to planning out sin, the one thing that we ignore is the fact that the God of heaven sees it all.
Psalm 139:7-12, A Psalm of David, says
“Where can I go from Your Spirit? Or where can I flee from Your presence? If I ascend into heaven, You are there; If I make my bed in hell, behold, You are there. If I take the wings of the morning, And dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea, Even there Your hand shall lead me, And Your right hand shall hold me. If I say, “Surely the darkness shall fall on me,” Even the night shall be light about me; Indeed, the darkness shall not hide from You, But the night shines as the day; The darkness and the light are both alike to You.”
The same ruddy little shepherd boy that killed a bear and a lion to save the sheep.
The same snot nosed kid that went over by the brook to get five smooth stones to kill Goliath.
The same bold man of God that took Goliath’s sword and cut the head of Goliath clean off.
The same psalmist that wrote “The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want.”
It’s sad that he couldn’t say, “The Lord is my Shepherd, I shall not want….Bathsheba.”
The biological and generational bridge to bring in the Son of God. As a note, if Ruth, the Moabitess, a descendant of Lot’s oldest daughter by incest, after the destruction of Sodom and Gomorrah, when Lot’s wife turned into a pillar of salt. If Ruth had gone her own way, she would not have met Boaz.
You just cannot make this redemption stuff up.
While the kings went to battle, David stayed behind. When you read the story, if you are reading it from the mind of a woman, (please do not be offended) it is time for you to understand the mind of a man.
According to 2 Samuel 11, David conveniently stayed home because he knew that a peep show was about to happen. With being a “peeping Tom,” it is just another peep/porn show on 42 Street.
What amazes me the most is that David had a bird’s eye view. Furthermore, as you read the various commentaries about this story, women would bathe in the open at three in the afternoon. This was not unusual if you read the various commentaries.
One commentary suggests that these roof top bathing places where everywhere. This means that David had a variety of watching posts. It also leads me to believe that some of the women caught on to what the what men were doing and exercised some discretion. Then again, some women may not have exercised discretion.
David took a nap and woke up just in time to see Bathsheba bathing?
How convenient the timing. In the mind of a man, when a beautiful woman walks this way everyday, you are going to make sure that you are there at precisely the right time to catch the show. If you are aware of the custom, it is not a big deal to walk out at anytime and have your pick at what you want to see. Except for David, he knew this was going to happen.
Sometimes, it’s the other way around. Ladies do not be offended, but when you want the attention of a man, you will wear something to help a man to remember you. This is not true for all women. A vast percentage of holy, sanctified women will not do this.
A very small percentage will.
I’ve seen it in the small local church my wife and I pastor.
They come in with cleavage.
I told my wife about this and said to her, you need to tell her about this because it is a distraction. Without any hesitation on my wife’s part, an end was put to it.
Sadly, immoral women do make it difficult for preachers. At the same time, immoral pastors make it difficult on themselves when they choose not to ignore or keep their mind on God. Women, whether they come with immoral intents or not, they cannot be blamed all the time unless they come dressed that way on purpose.
Some women will take offense when a pastor tells women how to dress. It is a form of bondage. However, my wife has a right to tell any women to adjust the way they dress because she knows that the game is on.
Sadly, the immoral women believe that they are in competition for a married wife’s husband when there is no competition. You can’t compete for something that is already another person’s possession. There is only pain and misery after you “win the competition.”
What makes the immoral women think that he is going to stay? If he cheated on his wife, what makes you think that he won’t cheat on you?
For Jezebels, after the promise of power comes, and the people walk out on the cheating pastor, the conquest for power dissipates because there is no one in their right mind that would want to stay to be controlled under Jezebel’s controlling, manipulative ways.
Or, the Lord brings judgment on Jezebel and or the man of Gawd that she stole and all the plans of “ministerial conquest” is thrown into the wind.
When my brother’s and I were laying our father to rest, I was invited to a Sunday church service by a married elder. After the service concluded, we walked outside and greeted the people. All of a sudden, a young lady in a low cleavage dark blue flirty dress in white high heels came across the street.
Out of the corner of my eye, I knew the intent and I turned away so as not to make eye contact.
Sometimes, you have to know when trouble is coming. Not that she was trouble, but with my eyes and my mind, I cannot afford trouble. A man could burn that image forever for later. If you know what I mean. My wife didn’t accompany with me for the trip so the sight discipline had to be maintained.
Any way, she walked up to this married elder that invited me. It wasn’t one of these conversations that seemed “regular.”
There was no question in my mind that he knew her very well, if you know what I mean.
Not that they had “connections” but you never know. In observation with the interaction with his wife (she wasn’t at church), it wasn’t warm, if you know what I mean. But as with all personal observations, I could be wrong. Unlike most pastors, I want to be wrong about this.
Men are to be blamed as well for objectifying women.
Some will say, that I, as a pastor, have no business even mentioning it.
On the contrary, if I do not believe it is a problem, immoral women will believe that it’s not a problem. Even when my wife is with me, you’d be surprised at what single and married women are willing to do.
As I was recovering from the affects of porn, I read material about how men are not paying attention to overt and covert actions of women.
Male pastors do not see it coming.
And it is true.
This is the reason why a male pastor must understand that the enemy is always looking for an opportunity. No matter how innocent the handshake, hug, friendly greeting kiss, or small talk may appear, both women and men will entertain warped perceptions that lead to dangerous moments.
That’s what this is all about.
Women look for connections that make them feel affirmed as women. But not just any ol’ connection.
As one person said, “The anointing could make a bum look good.”
Men just look for sex for connection and move on. That’s why the character and nature of Christ in all of us is paramount. More importantly, our relationship with the Lord is crucial because the Lord created us for His pleasure, not our own. To sin against God only reveals that we have cheapened our relationship with the Lord.
Unsuspecting to male pastors, after preaching, they are vulnerable. When you are in the strength of the anointing and grace of God, you are covered in His power. However, when you expend a lot of physical and mental energy in delivering the Word of God, after you are done, you are wide open for attacks.
This is the enemy’s chance to plant things in your mind because you are not expecting it, for one, and two, the enemy knows that if he could get you, this is the moment.
This is traced back to the time when Jesus was driven into the wilderness by the Holy Spirit to be tempted by the devil (see Luke 4:1-2). At the end of the forty days, the devil waited until Jesus was at His weakest to get Jesus with the best temptations possible.
The ploy is the same everywhere for every preacher.
When you are at your most weakest state, the temptation will be satan’s best.
I was reading Dr. Betty Price’s book on “A Warning To Ministers, Their Wives and Their Mistresses.”
Women would come to church and wear the most provocative things. They are bold and they will sit on the front row or close just to get noticed. I believe that some of these women stopped believing God for their own man to marry and go after accomplished married pastors.
In any era, it’s obvious. More than ever, we are seeing many pastor fall. We are also seeing many of these immoral women admit, after the fact, that they’ve made a mistake. It’s one mistake too late.
David took advantage of a custom. There is no question about the intent on David’s part. He knew that he would get to see what he wanted to see. His lack of discipline put him in the position to sin. He wasn’t where he was supposed to be. As with many men, they are out of position with their heart and spirit in their personal walk with the Lord.
Before any sins are committed a person must commit to sever their personal relationship with the Lord in order to commit sin. Because if you are connected to the light, in order to see, you must commit to keep the light on. The moment that you decide that you want to sin, you must disconnect from the Power.
David disconnected himself from the Lord.
When you are reading 2 Samuel 11, we must remember that this is not a real time event. This was brewing for months. There is no question in my mind that David saw Bathsheba before both in and out of clothing.
The Secret Sexual Sins in David’s heart was brewing.
It’s the same with all men. When you have someone in your mind that you want to have in bed, when you are enraged with their beauty, you will not quit until you have her. With self sex, it is not enough. You will take it to the next level.
When you read 2 Samuel 13 about Amnon being sick with lust for his sister, Tamar, now you can understand to what depths a man is willing to risk to have a woman. Amnon was willing to cross all the lines to commit Secret Sexual Sins with his own sister.
Perversion will take you into places where you thought you wouldn’t go. Or, perversion will take you into places where you planned all along to go.
Finally, after David had Bathsheba, she conceived. It probably took a missed cycle or two to figure out that she was pregnant. David had to cover his sin.
David thought that if he could get Uriah, his loyal subordinate commander, to have sex with his wife, the birth would somehow be covered. But Uriah’s loyalty kept him from his wife. Even after David got him drunk the second night, he thought that Uriah would finally see his wife. When that failed, David said in his mind and heart, “He must die.”
Uriah was killed, Bathsheba mourned for her husband, and David took her into his house.
It was then that the Lord was displeased.
Well, the Lord recorded this way because the Lord wants us to understand that sin is sin and during those months that David carefully planned this, at anytime, David could have said, “Wait! How could I do this?”
The power and strength of lust will cause anyone to suppress righteousness, justice, holiness, and disrespect God. The power and strength of lust, when yielded to, will drive a man from His relationship with the Lord, his wife, and throw away everything the Lord ever gave them.
Lust in the heart will destroy a man, his marriage, and his family.
In the days ahead, when we are quick to walk away from the fear of God, it will not bode well for lust driven pastors and believers on judgment day. The many lives that are destroyed because of lust in the heart is not the thing that we want to bring before the Lord when we stand before Him.
I cannot say that stuff is going to be exposed like David. Exposure has happened in many places, but today, there is no fear of God before their eyes. Pastors and believers are no longer afraid that they will be exposed. Like Cozbi and Zimri, Hophni and Phinehas, the fear of the Lord is nothing to many pastors and believers.
Years ago, the late Benson Idahosa, a bishop and an apostle in Nigeria was retiring to his hotel room. He and his entourage opened the door and smelled smoke. A known prostitute was hiding in the closet of the hotel room as a plant to entrap the Bishop in a sex scandal.
She cried out that she was burning and was burned with the fire of the Lord.
This is a powerful example of why it is important to keep yourself pure because God will protect a holy man of God with the holy fire of God for the times we are living in.
Secret Sexual Sins is open field running. It’s like the people in the Body of Christ are “streaking” before the throne of God. If you do not know what streaking is, it is running the streets in the buff.
When your sins are called out like David’s was, it’s because the Lord had no choice but to expose and uncover the cover up.
May we cry out for mercy because more pastors are going to come out of the closet. More pastors will yield to Secret Sexual Sins. More female pastors will disclose their “sexual preference and orientations.” High profile pastors that we see on TV will reveal who they really are. And because we are accustomed to the perverseness of the day, it will mean nothing to us.
Just remember, the remnant that hasn’t bowed their knee to Baal is out there, but thank God that someone is interceding and praying on earth to the Father in the name of Jesus.
Let’s cry out to the Lord, for the hour that is dark upon us. These are dark days, but the church will rise and be seen as the true church. The believers will rise and pray, and declare the Lordship of Jesus.
Not in word but in spirit and truth.
Come, Lord Jesus, come!
by Fred C. Rochester, Pastor Copyright 2011. All Rights Reserved.
When will he come? When will he ask me the question? When will I get married? When? When? When? Why do men wait so long? Why don’t they commit? Why does everyone else find a mate and I am left all alone? Is it because I’m not attractive or beautiful? What’s wrong with me? Why won’t God answer my prayers for a man? I am about ready to quit? God I hate You for putting me through this waiting period! God. I don’t believe You any more!
If you haven’t asked any of these questions or made any of these or similar statements, then you are married or you have completely walked away from the issue of getting married.
While you probably do not care about the statistics, they serve as vital pieces of information that will help us to understand the current trends of today.
It was estimated that during the 1950’s and 1960’s that over 60% of families were married. In other words, the household had a male and female figure that were joined in holy matrimony. Today, that figure is significantly reduced to around 30% or 40%, or less.
A number of significant dynamics occurred.
DECLINE OF MORALITY
Males that claim to be men fail to uphold the standards of morality according to Proverbs chapter 5, chapter 6, verses 20 through 35, and chapter 7.
The moral fibre of those days were far better than today.
Then there is the immoral woman as recorded in Proverbs chapter 7.
It’s a two way street.
If you slept around in those days, the stigmatization applied to unmarried women of being a “slut” or an adulterous woman being called a “whore,” was once very damaging. Yet, it compelled some women to “save herself” for the right man and from having these negative titles applied to her.
For men, it was a badge of honor to be in adulterous or multiple relationships. There was little, to no negative stigma attached to men that engaged in adultery or fornication.
Completely wrong, inappropriate, sinful, shameful, and downright filthy of men. Equal responsibility belongs to both male and female that engage in sexual immorality according Hebrews 13:4.
As far as male dominion was concerned, sleeping around and scoring was normal.
Today, it is almost no big deal for women to steal “experienced” married men or to fornicate regularly. In fact, this game of sleeping around is now almost on equal footing. This means that women hunt for “booty call” just like the men do.
Single women play the field just like men do. It is also common knowledge that women engage in porn and self gratification, commonly called masturbation. In fact, one out of six women will watch porn, one in three will act out or “hook up” with a man for sex to feed an intimacy connection need.
It is already common knowledge that men engage in lustfully watching women, being Beyonce or Angelina Jolie seduced, watching porn, and masturbating more often than you think.
There was one article that was called “Cheap Sex.”
Cheap Sex was about the fact that some women no longer demand that a man marry them in order to have sex. It is now normal to text a person for sex.
They would use their electronic devices and set up a rendezvous for a sex romp. A one night stand. Maybe two or three, if the sex was good, and then they call it quits. More couples that aren’t married are still “kicking the tires” or “shacking up.”
They enjoy the benefits of marriage, but there is no legal contract or marital obligation. They can walk out from each other at any time. No commitment, no marriage, no real meaningful relationship except in the bedroom, if you call that “meaningful.”
Risky, non condom sex always end tragically.
There is no such thing as “safe sex” except between two married persons of the opposite sex.
Pregnancies, still births, miscarriages (they happen between married couples too), an abortion, STD’s (only happens when one of them cheats on their spouses of the opposite sex). Children born out of wedlock or arrange for adoption after birth. Both the mother and the child contracting HIV/AIDS. Even if there were no births or STD’s, the emotional emptiness is still there until it is temporarily filled with another sex romp.
Or is completely fulfilled in the Person of the Lord Jesus Christ according to John chapter 4:1-27, John 8:1-11.
For the most part, most women desire romance and commitment in a monogamous relationship.
The search for real intimacy and relationship continues to end for the available single woman in frustration, anguish, despondency, and utter despair. A single woman’s needs go unmet and this cycle of frustration continues.
WHAT ARE SINGLE WOMEN FACING TODAY?
The variety of apparent negative dynamics.
Black men marrying White, and Asian women, and White women are marrying Black and Asian men.
In my opinion, when two persons of the opposite sex truly love each other, it should never be a problem. When it comes to population statistics, it is true that in the United States, African Americans make up 12% or 13% of the US population.
When Black males marry White women, it is a very serious issue that significantly decrease the chances for available Black women to marry Black men. There is no question that some Black women seriously object to Black men marrying White or Asian women, and they are hurt by this.
However, I find that White men cross the color line too.
My opinion doesn’t have to be accepted, but it is clear. When two persons of the opposite sex love each other and are willing to look past the shell for the person, that’s what matters the most.
There is no way to smooth this over because the realities are before us. There will be disagreements and anger because of what I said (this is I speaking, not the Lord), but we must be honest about what is before us and begin to look at the total picture. It doesn’t mean that you have to accept it. Just look at the facts with an honest and open heart and mind.
Even if I were say that God really brought two racially different persons together, for the person that isn’t married to object and take exception, I have to agree with you that there is very little comfort and solace.
My prayer to the Father, in Jesus’ name is that you do not be bitter about it. Be better about it by “walking in the Spirit” and “let love be without hypocrisy,” according to Romans 12:9. Resist and refuse to harbor resentment, envy, and jealousy according to James 3:13-18.
When you can’t do this, (that is walk in love about it), you have made a choice to refuse to do what Christ would want you to do about it. Anytime we refuse to do what the Word says to do, we are walking in disobedience, and we cannot expect God to do much to change our own situations when we willingly stuff our disobedience in His face.
There are things that must be broken in us if we want to see a breakthrough for us.
More men are incarcerated. More men are exploring same sex, self sex, or bisexuality to self satisfy sexual intimacy needs apart from women. More men are unemployed and are unable to financially sustain a family, let alone themselves. More males remain childish males mentally.
These factors significantly decreases the possibility of women getting married. What this means is that some of the men still see life as a game and sex is a part of that game they play. They must be broken, in Jesus’ name. Available single women are waiting for men to show up.
Which of you males are willing to put away childish things and become a man?
You know that men have a penis but they don’t use their brains first. Their sex drives compels their lower anatomy to do all their thinking for them.
Sexually only minded males will only view of women from a commodity perspective. The “sexual objectification of women” only for satisfying a sexually immoral desire. The male’s flawed thinking is that the body of a women is just a container to get off on. Use and discard a woman just like a condom.
Not realizing that the woman is a person with feelings, emotions, and is a human being. Worthy to be loved, honored, and respected.
With this type of immorality going on, men are no longer forced by single available women to commit to her and be in a meaningful relationship when “free tail” from immoral women is offered.
Then there is the flawed, at best thinking that, “If I don’t let him have me, I will never get him.” Or. “I’ll give him a baby, and he will marry me!”
That’s the whole purpose of prostitution or one night sex romps. Give a man only one thing and that’s it. All of the other stuff is not a part of what men pay for.
But deep down inside, the male will one day, be a man and come to the conclusion that they need feminine connection, relationship, and spousal affirmation. Not just from the bedroom but from life as a whole. Deep down inside a man, he is looking for a person that would accept him for who he is. And right now, all he is thinking about is to be accepted and affirmed from one selfish aspect.
The sense of physical sex and achieving orgasm for accomplishment, or job well done in the bedroom, is his only objective. It’s a cry for intimacy by relationship that he, himself concluded could only be attained through sex acts.
Why do men take so long to come to their senses?
Sex to him is incorrectly considered a sport. A “score.” A reward for winning. When everything else fails around him, he goes to the one place where it is a guarantee that he will be rewarded.
These are just some of the things that single women face as to why men do not commit to a meaningful relationship.
Then there are men that can’t get past wounds inflicted from previous relationships. He self determined that they are too painful for him to overcome to engage in another relationship. So he engages in meaningless sexual relationships for sex only because it requires no commitment.
This is very disparaging for single women.
For single women, the “competition” is fierce and intense. Even in the church. For the most part, the church is somewhat to blame because there is very little, to no teaching to men about dating, sex, relationships, commitment, connections, how to rightly treat women, and so forth.
Then the places where connections take place is more of a worldly culture than Christian.
The night clubs, malls, movie theaters, street hangout, private and semi-private parties are the common places where “hook ups,” are happening. Some “so called” Christian concerts is another venue.
Looking at the church scene, we see that not many men show up in small churches. In fact, there was one article that revealed that the place to go meet a man is in the mega churches or a fairly sized church. That’s because the chances for being noticed exponentially increases where more males show up.
But also in these mega or large churches, there is a lot of single available women waiting to be noticed. These women range from chaste, to extremely provocative. I find that for the most part in the medium and mega churches where there is a single male pastor available, more single available women will show in hopes of being noticed and get married to that pastor.
There is no doubt that marrying a pastor is on the list because the pastor’s personality, outspoken nature, possible good looks, power, influence, money, and other high end aspects is extremely appealing to single available women. There is no doubt that even married women will “get counseling” just to get in bed with that pastor. It has happened, so don’t be naive or fooled.
But for the most part, righteous single women just want a man that would be interested in her. She wants him to be successful, working, responsible, caring, loving, sensitive, fun, and above all, one that is serious about the Lord, as well as be serious about family values, and commitment to one woman.
She is looking for someone that will love her for who she is. A beautiful, attractive, intelligent, and a well grounded woman. Grounded in the sense that she lives by basic godly principles.
These virtues is very appealing to a man.
These principles is not about housekeeping, child bearing, and raising. It is not about being a “momma” to the man. It’s more about common relational connections that makes being around each other fun, exciting, and challenging. Challenging in the sense that you are learning each other and adapting or adjusting to make a relationship work.
It is in this aspect that women shine and the best is brought out of her.
All she needs is for a man to take a chance.
Finally, the risk is there. A man takes a risk. A woman takes a risk. In my judgment, mistakes are going to be made. Perfection is a fleeting thing. First impressions are lasting impressions but somewhere along the line, in making a choice, a hair or two will be out of place.
Men. Stop dawdling and accept her with that hair out of place. All she needs is a brush or comb to put it back in place.
Man. A piece of meat will be found in between your teeth when you put on your best smile after dinner.
What am I saying?
Men. You need to get off the sidelines and pick one. She is right there in front of you. Pick her. Compatibility is sometimes determined when you first set eyes on each other and begin to look past the skin, and see a person that desires your love.
And if you are in a relationship, how ready for marriage are you going to get? She is waiting for your proposal. She is waiting on you to get serious and pop the question. She is waiting to walk down that isle and give you everything you could ever imagine.
My brother, if you are reading this, perhaps you need a little push. You might be asking the question, “How will I know she’s the one?”
Sometimes you won’t know until she walks down that isle. You won’t know until you are on your sick bed and you look up, and she is right there. You won’t know until you can’t pay the bills but she willingly puts her resources together to help you. You won’t know until you wake up next to her after the wedding, and you see her smile across her face.
That smile is a smile of, “I thank God you picked me.”
Single women, do not give up on God.
Sometimes what you need to do is venture outside the normal. See new places and meet new people. It’s a risk that everyone takes. But you won’t know until you go. Sometimes you are waiting too long for the one that you think is to be your soul mate.
But he keeps you waiting and waiting. HE is a fool because he failed to recognize that God put you there for him.
It’s time for you to make a decision because you can’t let a male person that is known to go no where keep you from going somewhere.
There are many place where you shouldn’t go. God knows that you do not need to go to places where the dating is nothing more than going to clubs/brothels, or strip joints.
You are worth more than that, and you should never lower your standards to hook up with the wrong bozo/bonehead that thinks only about satisfying his other head.
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