One of the biggest lies ever told.
There is no such thing as safe sex.
Notice the name on this package of condoms. Trojan. Its phrase meaning is “work very hard.”
When a condom breaks or is touched in any way, or when contact is made even after sex with a condom, death works very hard to kill you.
Sounds like Proverbs 14:15 to me.
John 8:44-45 says “You are of your father the devil, and the desires of your father you want to do. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own resources, for he is a liar and the father of it. But because I tell the truth, you do not believe Me.”
“Safe sex” is attempting to give a “false sense of security” to help you decide to take a risk to enjoy the pleasures of illegal sex.
As the Scripture points out, the devil is a liar and a murderer.
He doesn’t care about you and he will lie to you just to kill you.
The episode with Charlie Sheen’s announcement that he is HIV positive and has had unprotected sex is another worm (the information about safe sex) that crawled out of the can.
Psalm 107:7 says “Fools! Because of their transgressions and because of their inquiries are afflicted.”
After reading this article from CNN about “Safe Sex,” the world still preaches its lies.
If someone were to walk up to you and say that it is perfectly safe to touch the 3rd Rail with 700 volts, you would look at them crazy.
If someone were to walk up to you and tell you that in that room is uranium and that it is perfectly safe to go in that room without protection, you would say that they are insane.
We do not have a problem with these apparent inherent dangers that you need protection or completely abstain from entertaining any thought to touch electricity or stand in a room where there is uranium.
But when it comes to having sex with someone that has HIV, we seem to have lost our ever living minds.
We have fooled ourselves into thinking that the pleasure of sex is worth the risk of acquiring what is the most destructive disease of sexual immorality.
With the many “medical advances” to help people cope with the acquisition of HIV, there is no escaping of the end result.
The time that they would have had is taken from them because of engaging in the sin of adultery, fornication, homosexuality, and or bisexuality. The pleasures of this life were too enticing to pass up.
The result is clear.
Romans 6:23 says “For the wages of sin is death but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.”
When you work, you expect to get paid.
When you work sin, you must expect to get paid death.
However, there is hope.
“….the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord.”
Everyone loves a gift. God gave Jesus as a gift to man to be free from sin forever. We do not get free to continue in sin (see Romans 6:1). We receive the gift and we stay free of sin. Otherwise, “the wages of sin is death.”
Do not be foolish. There is no such thing as safe sex except within the confines of one man and one woman, joined in holy matrimony till death do they part.
The only safe sex is either abstinence or fidelity in marriage.
Anything more than this, and there is no safety guarantees.
Where there is even the slightest risk, all bets are off.
The story regarding safe sex could be read here.
Amos 3:3 says “Can two walk together except they be agreed?”
Sadly, in many of our houses of worship, there are male prostitutes. Take it for what it’s worth.
Why did I use Amos 3:3?
Because there are many males and females that agree with unclean (morally lewd spirits) to be a temple prostitute. In places where temple prostitution is done in secret, we may never know until a pregnancy out of wedlock takes place, STDs (have you ever wondered why people disappear from church, never to be seen again?), or other immorality issues come to light.
Bisexuality is more common than you think. Some men hide behind their marriages and have MSM on the side. Yes, it happens in the house of worship. Pastors, music ministers, spiritual leadership, and believers are engaging in lewd activity.
We may never know the true numbers because these activities are done in secret. But what we are seeing is that there are places in the United States that are openly homosexual affirming houses of whoredom and debauchery or “excessive indulgence in sensual pleasures.”
While they claim to be worshipping God, there are actually places where sexual immorality is operating on the level of the pre flood days of Noah.
You walk into these places and you see males and females operating in perversion from the night before, lift hands, speak in tongues, cry, and all that. As soon as service is over, the immoral hookups begin.
For instance, in Atlanta, GA, LGBT churches are cropping up all over the place.
In one place called “New Covenant Church,” if you go to their website, click “About Us” and then “What We Believe,” you will see that at first glance, it looks like a Christian church. But when you get to the bottom of it (pun not intended), you will see the words “sexual orientation.”
Wait until you read the testimonies. At first, it looks normal. But you get to the part about equalizing the sin of homosexuality with Christianity and it is like you are eating chicken but it has a real funny taste to it.
When they talk about Jesus, tongues, worship and then their wicked involvement with the sin of homosexuality, it’s a dead giveaway that the sins of homosexuality were lurking in the muddied water like sharks that conceal their identity until they are ready to strike.
Then, they have a “Transgender Ministry.”
Click the link below to see what this is about.
Some of you will ask……. “Why are we “picking” on this specific group of people?
It’s not just homosexuality that may be going on. We are talking about the wide range of perversion that is happening in the houses of worship that fosters this kind of perverted activity. Because the sins of adultery and fornication is relatively normal in the house of worship, homosexuality was at home, waiting for the right moment to come out.
If you notice, people come to have their babies dedicated to the Lord. Chances are, they are unmarried, single mothers that committed adultery or fornication. They bring their child to be blessed and the pastor goes along with the mess. Now when it comes to dedicating a child, it is not the child’s fault.
Adultery and fornication is not a mistake. Adultery and fornication is a deliberate, intentional act of sin against the known will of God. The pleasures of the flesh brought forth a child. When the single parent cannot afford a child, they sacrifice the child.
The biological father got what he wanted. The release of sexual tension. The biological mother got what she wanted. The release of sexual tension, a child, in hopes that the male would stay with her. And if not, she deliberately terminates the child’s life.
Homosexuals see this activity and it gives them fuel for their argument of normalizing perversion.
The house of worship is now the best big whore house in America, where the spirit of harlotry is lord.
When the sins of adultery and fornication go unchecked in the people, the door is wide open for the rest of perversion to enter in.
Homosexuality stayed in the closet because of the stigmatization attached while being a professed believer. Today, as we could see, the stigma is still there. The shame of the sin of homosexuality is suppressed in militancy against the known will of God, and the acceptance of homosexuality in the United States, and abroad has normalized homosexuality.
In certain places in the US, the laws against sodomy were overturned. Homosexuality became a Civil Rights issue (thanks to all of the blind civil rights leaders that were asleep on their watch), judicial activism suppressed voter rights, the DOJ (Department Of Justice) no longer enforces DOMA, the Supreme Court declared unconstitutional certain provisions of DOMA (Defense of Marriage Act), president Obama uses the presidency to purport the sin of homosexuality with Congressional approval to overturn DADT (Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell) in the military.
The results is an increase in sexual assault in the military at unprecedented levels.
You can’t stop sexual sins in the military when the top sin of human perversion is permitted as a normal lifestyle.
Some will disagree and say that sin is sin. Look at Sodom and Gomorrah. Did God ever pour out his wrath like that on lying? Were there liars in Sodom and Gomorrah? Yup! However, when the two angels were sent to rescue Lot, the men in that city wanted to sexually abuse the angels. Even when the men in that city turned down the offer of Lot’s daughters.
For a sexually perverted male to turn down a female only underscores the level of debauchery these men went to. I mean, they flatly turned down having sex with a woman. Which is the mindset of homosexuals today. Then again, there are bisexual males, but you get my point. But there are some homosexuals that would vomit first before having sex with a woman.
Any way, there were many other legislative steps such as changing State constitutions to legalize marriage for same sex couples.
It’s been a long up hill battle to normalize the sin of homosexuality.
These gains for LGBT is a serious indication of the moral decline of a nation that could thank the Christian church for.
In a way, homosexuality was already normalized in the church when pastors, whether they knew it or not, permitted homosexuals to play for their churches.
So Proverbs 14:34 says, “Righteousness exalts a nation but sin is a reproach to any people.”
Hence, “Sin debases a nation and righteousness is a reproach to people that love sin.”
Over 50% of people support homosexual unions……I can’t use the word marriage because marriage is between one man and one woman according to Genesis 2:24. You will never see God bring a man to a man or a woman to a woman.
The house of worship is responsible for purporting temple prostitutes.
Deuteronomy 23:17 says, “There shall be no ritual harlot of the daughters of Israel, or a perverted one of the sons of Israel. You shall not bring the wages of a harlot or the price of a dog to the house of the Lord your God for any vowed offering, for both of these are an abomination to the Lord your God.”
Daughters of Israel, harlots and sons of Israel, perverted ones.
Notice that harlot daughters and perverted sons of Israel are called “dogs.”
Those that intentionally commit homosexuality, fornication, and adultery in the house of worship are called dogs.
Revelation 22:15 says, “But outside are dogs and sorcerers and sexually immoral and murderers and idolaters, and whoever loves and practices a lie.”
The word “dog” from Strong’s Concordance, means “a man with an impure mind.”
The word “dog” in Deuteronomy 23:17, from Strong’s Concordance, means a “male cult prostitute.”
You be the judge but we all know that when you are dealing with the impurities of a man, you are dealing with sexual immorality.
In many Bible Dictionaries and commentaries, male cult prostitutes, more than likely, dealt with the sin of homosexuality. However, there is no doubt in my mind that bisexuality is possible.
When males come to the house of worship, when you see them flirting with either males or female, you have to take note. It is the beginning stages of perversion in the house of worship.
It’s not about putting up barriers to prevent people from coming to the house of worship. It’s about putting up barriers against behavior that we know is not accepted in heaven. Sinners are supposed to come to the house of worship to be saved, delivered, and set free by the power of the gospel.
Saints learn from the Word of God the maintenance of sanctification to perfect holiness in the fear of God.
We must never be so high and lofty that we refuse to minister to people the power of God in applying the Scriptures. Too often, pastors close the door on anyone that comes to the house of worship. Now if an individual insists on bringing perversion into the house of worship, and the pastor fails to address the issue, then he is a facilitator of the Secret and Overt Sexual Sins in the house of worship.
Should a pastor have an inquisition to ascertain sexual activity in the church?
I believe that if there is an alarm sounded where perversion is perceived, either by people or revealed by the Holy Spirit, the pastor must engage the situation immediately, determine the facts from the parties involved, do everything necessary to command repentance, and offer the right kind of help in counseling for those involved.
Preaching messages on holiness to attack sin will be necessary. However, such messages must address all sexual sins while leaving no stone unturned. In the messages, grace, forgiveness, and love must be at the foundation WITHOUT COMPROMISING the true gospel message of hope and deliverance from sin.
Sexual immorality ought not be operating in the houses of worship, but they do happen, more often than we know.
We must do everything in our power to address this issue. Otherwise we are complicit with demonic activity in the house where the worship our Holy God is exclusive.
By Fred C. Rochester. Copyright 2011. All Rights Reserved.
The porn industry obviously targets males but we are seeing a clear trend that women are watching porn and it is increasing.
Here are the statistics to prove it.
According to blazingGrace.org
* 17% of all women struggle with porn addiction
* 1 of 3 visitors to all adult websites are women
* 9.4 million women access adult websites every month
Internet Filter Review
Where do they go after the Internet porn?
To the chat rooms of the Internet.
It is in these places that single, divorced, and married women go. When it comes to singles, because they may be lonely or may have come out of a bad relationship, the chat room is the place where they reconnect but from a distance.
This may include webcams where lewd behavior take place. All over the Internet, we are seeing this behavior and that is just the tip of the iceberg.
Where do they go after the chat room?
One statistic is equally shocking.
1 of 6 women will “act out” their fantasy.
From the chat room to the bedroom.
They will go to a hotel, house, or wherever to “act out” their fantasy.
This is level one sex addiction where the desire to go beyond self imposed limits must be breached so as to experience the full sexual act.
When you do not desire to cross that line, you will stick with self gratification.
For many, they are willing to risk their lives just to feel connected. Men will lie and deceive just to get what they want. Sadly, women will believe them and may lose it all. They know that if they are not killed that it is highly probable that they will get pregnant or contract STDs, HIV/AIDS, and experience relational wounds.
There are crazy criminally minded men out there that prey on women. Sadly, another Ted Bundy is waiting to emerge that will make what the late Ted Bundy did look like child’s play. When a woman or a teenage girl disappears, the worst fears are imagined.
Rape, sodomy, sexual assault, murder.
As I have stated, no one watches porn and do not masturbate.
That is, unless they are incapacitated for whatever reason. Porn is the fuel to the fire that is already raging within people. Sexual tension is real. It is the most difficult part to master, control, and overcome. When anyone watches porn, there is no question about it’s objective.
Objective number 1
Objective number 2
Keep you in bondage by offering endless false pleasure.
Objective number 3
Keep you in a place of hopelessness. Hopelessness in the sense that you would never be loved by anyone. So, in self gratification, you “love” yourself.
When porn and masturbation is done over and over again, habits or rituals are formed.
Anytime your “urges and impulses” go off, you set in motion a ritual to achieve sex satisfaction objectives. For instance, when you are at home, when you are hungry, you go to the kitchen to look for something to eat. Just a few minutes after eating you are full but your brain says “I want more.”
So you eat, not to satisfy a hunger, but to satisfy the craving. The brain doesn’t care about how much is in your stomach because the brain is only looking for complete satisfaction that goes beyond the limits imposed on the stomach.
It’s the same with porn and self gratification, commonly called masturbation.
When normal sexuality in a marriage takes place, generally, it takes a man 24 hours for his sexual organs to recover. However, men can masturbate themselves to soreness because of compulsion. Women recover quicker than men and could experience multiple orgasms.
We watch and keep on watching. We masturbate, and we keep on masturbating because we are not satisfied or the process, and climax is so intense, we want that feeling over and over again.
Clearly, this is a compulsion that may indicate sexual addiction.
When is sexual addiction, sexual addiction?
When you cannot stop, manage, or control sexual urges and impulses.
Many lonely women share their intimate sexually explicit fantasies and fetishes with other males or females for the purpose of connecting. Remember, women are wired differently than males according to Dr. William Struthers. Males are “wired for sex.”
For women, they are emotionally wired. Connection gives a woman value and raises her self esteem as a person. Some people will say, “I can understand a single person or even a divorced person, but a married person? No way!”
When the husband fails to give the woman all that she desires in the full spectrum of connection, that disconnected feeling causes her to look elsewhere to fulfill that need. The husband could be involved with a mistress (job, sports, housework, newspaper, magazine, porn, masturbation, or a another woman or a man) and she looks in frustration to her husband but he won’t give her the time of day.
She looks for other men and one thing will lead to another because that’s her make up. She is willing to cross the line after months or even years of neglect. It’s not just bedroom neglect. It’s communication neglect. Meaningful interaction outside the bedroom between husband and wife is equally important in securing the relationship.
It is the interactive connection that brings a measure of satisfaction in a relationship. This is where the husband has to look at himself and realize that his wife is vulnerable when she feels disconnected from her husband. In another form of disconnect, she sees her husband connecting with other woman but he gets into the car or comes home, he retreats to his “man cave,” leaving his wife all alone.
This is common and it makes the wife feel mistreated. This form of neglect is sometimes the reason behind a wife’s adulterous affair. Sadly, someone comes and gives the wife the time of day that she knows would make her husband jealous, but she doesn’t care.
She has “needs” too.
Sin can never be excused in either case.
Loneliness is isolation even when two persons live in the same house or apartment.
Sex is the ultimate bond that validates the relationship. The moment that a woman is safe, secure, validated, and connected to her husband, there is no need to look elsewhere. The moment there is a disconnection, the consequences are tremendous.
Porn is about lust or fulfilling a need through that which is forbidden.
Porn is not the place to go but Christian women go there.
When you have, in a 24 hour period, over 2.1 billion individual internet downloads of porn everyday, you can be sure that there are Christians downloading porn.
In search of true intimacy in false intimacy places.
Intimacy is her place of feeling secure in the relationship. Intimacy is not to be done just to feel connected but it is a result of feeling an overall love and bonding that cannot be experienced elsewhere in the natural.
The soul of women is deep as it is for a man.
The “soul tie” is that connection that fulfills her need of bonding and security. The moment that this is disrupted, the soul will be tempted to pursue until that need is satisfied.
The Samaritan woman that Jesus interacted with is a classic case of the unending search for love and connection. She searched for a man that would completely satisfy her desire for love and value (see John 4).
She had five husbands and then she gave up on “marriage” and was involved in an adulterous relationship with a sixth man. In each case, she either felt disappointed in each man or the men decided to leave because they realized that they couldn’t give her what she wanted.
Perhaps, she was unable to articulate what she needed and frustrated the husband to the point of forcing him to divorce her. Or she articulated it and demanded that he divorce her so she could pursue another relationship. Or the men used her just to have sex with her and ended abruptly the marriage. A number of scenarios, but in each case, she was still in search for complete satisfaction, until she met Jesus.
Jacob’s well was the perfect example.
Jacob means trickster. It could have been that all she was doing was “tricking” men into relationships and each man could have had enough of being tricked.
Lady, you have been drinking from this well and you have and you will never be satisfied but if you drink of the water that I give you, you will never thirst again. In the natural, any woman would think that He was dropping “a line,” but the Lord was only telling her that you can only be satisfied if you drink living water.
Your pursuits of connection will never be found in sex. Your lustful pursuits to be satisfied will never be found in your mate or husband. Your satisfaction will only come from drinking the water that I, Jesus, can give you and you will never thirst again. What you are trying to find in your husband will reach a limit. When that limit is reached, you must have the smarts to recognize that what is lacking in my husband, Jesus completely fulfills.
It’s the same with men. What fulfillment they are attempting to find in the bedroom will only be found on your knees before God. Sex is not the place where complete intimacy is achieved. Sex is given for pleasure, procreation, and bonding between two persons of the opposite sex. Once that is accomplished, when you are still feeling unfulfilled, it is a signal to you to seek the true and living God.
The Lover of your souls.
“Prayer is intimacy with God”, as the late Dr. Ed Cole would say.
It is in His presence that there is fulness of joy and at His right hand there are pleasures forevermore. Porn is not the place of intimacy. It is the place of sin where fulfillment is never achieved. If you are thirsty, come to Jesus.
Only He can fully satisfy.