When Church Women Chase Church Male Tail

How soon we forget that a woman, Teleka Patrick recently allegedly stalked Marvin Sapp and was found dead. Marvin Sapp was cleared of any wrong doing and all he desires is some peace. After his wife went home to be with the Lord because of colon cancer, he deserves some peace.

Especially from immoral women. This is not to say that all the women that stalked his house, and has stalked his house are immoral, but these days, you never know.

Sadly, women are infatuated with preachers, pastors, and male psalmists. This infatuation will never cease because of the attraction to fame, power, money, and notoriety. To be seen as Mrs……whatever, is irresistible. All these trappings is glitter before people but it is litter before God.

The book of Proverbs is generally a wisdom book for men. Solomon wrote this book because men need wisdom when dealing with certain kinds of women.

Solomon had 1000 or more women because he loved women.

The Lord said that if he doesn’t stay true to God and avoid them, they would turn Solomon’s heart from The Lord.

After learning about women the hard way, this wisdom is shared so you could avoid them.

Ladies, we are not hating on you.

Just like men need to be scrutinized and avoided, so do certain kinds of women. There was a very powerful Book of Proverbs post about the types of women men are to avoid and I thought that I would ad-lib about it.

Along with another interesting post from the Official Marvin Sapp page that was placed on my FB timeline by a FB friend.

Again ladies, do not be offended……………..unless you are listed as one or all of these Scriptures.

1. The Immoral Woman (Proverbs 5:3-6)

3 “For the lips of an immoral woman drip honey,
And her mouth is smoother than oil;
4 But in the end she is bitter as wormwood,
Sharp as a two-edged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death,
Her steps lay hold of hell.
6 Lest you ponder her path of life —
Her ways are unstable;
You do not know them.”

Wormwood is considered poisonous and accursed.

Sadly, brothers do not see it coming. That’s why Solomon said “You do not know them.”


2. The Seductress (Proverbs 5:20).


20 “For why should you, my son, be enraptured by an immoral woman,
And be embraced in the arms of a seductress?”


3. The Harlot (Proverbs 23:27-28).


27 For a harlot is a deep pit,
And a seductress is a narrow well.
28 She also lies in wait as for a victim,
And increases the unfaithful among men.”


4. The Adulteress (Proverbs 6:26).


26 “For by means of a harlot
A man is reduced to a crust of bread;
And an adulteress will prey upon his precious life.”

All a harlot wants is your money, but an adulteress wants your life. In other words, they want you to divorce your wife so the adulteress could have you. Sometimes, this is also called “fatal attraction.” This is when a man’s penis becomes his brain. He can’t think straight because he think he is having the best sex of his life. The woman becomes so possessive that she gives him everything he ever wanted sexually.

She is in control and has overpowered the man. There are possessive women that operate just like this just to exercise dominance over a man because the stupid ones don’t see it coming. His sexual infatuation has turned into complete surrender to feminine dominance.

Notice what Proverbs 6:32-33 says.

32 “Whoever commits adultery with a woman lacks understanding; He who does so destroys his own soul.
33 Wounds and dishonor he will get, And his reproach (disgrace) will not be wiped away.”


5. The Evil Woman (Proverbs 6:24).


24 “To keep you from the evil woman, from the flattering tongue of a seductress.” 

The word “evil” means “bad or wicked.”


6. The Loud And Rebellious Woman (Proverbs 7:10-11).


10 “And there a woman met him, With the attire of a harlot, and a crafty heart.
11 She was loud and rebellious, Her feet would not stay at home.”

A loud woman is one that always makes an entrance with rage and when you try to correct her, she is stubborn. This is also called being “headstrong.”

There is a difference between a woman that is strong in her heart about the things of God and headstrong which is also indicative of being un-submissive. Submissive is not yielding to a male to be dominated beyond reason and common sense. Submissive requires a husband to love her as Christ loves the church. He protects and provides for the house. In that environment, she should have no problem submitting.

Another word for loud is clamorous. Notice Proverbs 9:13-18.

13 “A foolish woman is clamorous;
She is simple, and knows nothing.
14 For she sits at the door of her house,
On a seat by the highest places of the city,
15 To call to those who pass by,
Who go straight on their way:
16 “Whoever is simple, let him turn in here”;
And as for him who lacks understanding, she says to him,
17 “ Stolen water is sweet,
And bread eaten in secret is pleasant.”
18 But he does not know that the dead are there,
That her guests are in the depths of hell.”

7. The Contentious Woman (Proverbs 25:24).

24 “It is better to dwell in a corner of a housetop, Than in a house shared with a contentious woman.”

Some women cannot do without drama in the house. They contend regularly with everything. A man could be doing the right thing and she goes off like a Roman candle.

Here is the remedy to avoid all of the above….

Ecclesiastes 7:26

“And I find more bitter than death
The woman whose heart is snares and nets,
Whose hands are fetters.
He who pleases God shall escape from her,
But the sinner shall be trapped by her.”

This works only before you get married.

Just like women have to do their homework on the right man, men must equally do “due diligence.”

Below is a serious problem with Marvin Sapp. Ever since his wife went home to be with the Lord, because he is well known and available, sadly, women are throwing themselves at him.

It is a good indication that these women are listed above. It shows desperation and a serious laps of judgment.

This is alarming.

Marvin Sapp is to be commended for his discipline. He has enough on his plate to answer for. He doesn’t need to get hooked up with the wrong woman and all of a sudden, he has more issues.

Just like some men are high maintenance, the wrong woman is equally high maintenance.

So ladies. A word to the wise. If he doesn’t look your way, leave him alone. When you are this desperate, it reveals the kind of woman you are. Go back to the drawing board of the fruit of the Spirit. The character of Christ. Work on you walk before God.

A famous rich preacher man is not all you think it to be.

He’s got some issues just like every male has issues. You may have seen that the grass as green on that side, but you’ve never walked on that side of the grass.

This is from the Official FB Page of Marvin Sapp.

IMPORTANT!!!! WOMEN PLEASE STOP SHOWING UP AT MY HOME!!! I haven’t and won’t inbox you if I’m interested. I’m not communicating with you via social media or through subliminal messaging. I’m not inboxing you asking for any amounts of money for anything. And to the woman that showed up today at 7:30am I have the make, model and license plate of your automobile and have reported it to the authorities. ‪#‎ThisMustStop‬ ‪#‎UNWANTEDATTENTION‬


Author: The Minister's Crucible

The Minister's Crucible is designed to inform the Body of Christ about the inner workings of the ministry. The word Crucible from Latin, is "crux" where we get the word "cross" from. It also means a "metal container" where metals and other substances are melted or are subjected to higher temperatures, put to the temperature test. The Lord Jesus said "If any man desires to follow after Me, let him deny himself, take up his cross, and follow Me." Let's take up our cross and follow Him.

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